I was talking to this co worker and we are just in the flirting phase right now..i told her about my 3 dogs and im really an animal lover so the only feed on my facebook are dog and cat rescue and soap making...then she said " you have a cat" but in a panic mode. To which i said no i just feed the area strays and i dont own a cat...im guessing she had cat issure so should i take it as a good sign that she asking these question? Im just asking if anyone has issue with prospect asking pet related question.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Cats!!!
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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If women continually reject you because of cats, you are a catcel lol.
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All kidding aside, there is small percentage of women that don’t like men with cats. It’s ridiculous. Not sure if she is one of them.
The lady I’m seeing likes cats but is allergic, which is understandable.
I love cats, but I’m not home that much, so I don’t have one.
The lady I’m seeing likes cats but is allergic, which is understandable.
I love cats, but I’m not home that much, so I don’t have one.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
It is my personal belief that anyone that owns more than 3 animals especially if they live in the city is fvckin nuts...My ex wife insisted on owning 3 cats and she was insane,I call them crazy cat lady's..men that own own cats are looked upon strangely and rightfully so......on a side issue @logicallefty for the past 3 days while I have been logged off of the site posts of mine have disappeared just letting you know.(I don't know what the hell is going on)
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Huh ?..... No girl is going to reject a good prospect over a cat.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.