I was talking to this co worker and we are just in the flirting phase right now..i told her about my 3 dogs and im really an animal lover so the only feed on my facebook are dog and cat rescue and soap making...then she said " you have a cat" but in a panic mode. To which i said no i just feed the area strays and i dont own a cat...im guessing she had cat issure so should i take it as a good sign that she asking these question? Im just asking if anyone has issue with prospect asking pet related question.
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Cats!!!
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If women continually reject you because of cats, you are a catcel lol.
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All kidding aside, there is small percentage of women that don’t like men with cats. It’s ridiculous. Not sure if she is one of them.
The lady I’m seeing likes cats but is allergic, which is understandable.
I love cats, but I’m not home that much, so I don’t have one.
The lady I’m seeing likes cats but is allergic, which is understandable.
I love cats, but I’m not home that much, so I don’t have one.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
It is my personal belief that anyone that owns more than 3 animals especially if they live in the city is fvckin nuts...My ex wife insisted on owning 3 cats and she was insane,I call them crazy cat lady's..men that own own cats are looked upon strangely and rightfully so......on a side issue @logicallefty for the past 3 days while I have been logged off of the site posts of mine have disappeared just letting you know.(I don't know what the hell is going on)
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Huh ?..... No girl is going to reject a good prospect over a cat.
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