I was talking to this co worker and we are just in the flirting phase right now..i told her about my 3 dogs and im really an animal lover so the only feed on my facebook are dog and cat rescue and soap making...then she said " you have a cat" but in a panic mode. To which i said no i just feed the area strays and i dont own a cat...im guessing she had cat issure so should i take it as a good sign that she asking these question? Im just asking if anyone has issue with prospect asking pet related question.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Cats!!!
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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If women continually reject you because of cats, you are a catcel lol.
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All kidding aside, there is small percentage of women that don’t like men with cats. It’s ridiculous. Not sure if she is one of them.
The lady I’m seeing likes cats but is allergic, which is understandable.
I love cats, but I’m not home that much, so I don’t have one.
The lady I’m seeing likes cats but is allergic, which is understandable.
I love cats, but I’m not home that much, so I don’t have one.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
It is my personal belief that anyone that owns more than 3 animals especially if they live in the city is fvckin nuts...My ex wife insisted on owning 3 cats and she was insane,I call them crazy cat lady's..men that own own cats are looked upon strangely and rightfully so......on a side issue @logicallefty for the past 3 days while I have been logged off of the site posts of mine have disappeared just letting you know.(I don't know what the hell is going on)
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Huh ?..... No girl is going to reject a good prospect over a cat.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.