"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Catch and a Half.

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Some of you may know... I've been working on confidence body language skills.

Some random Sprouts worker went to grab my arm as I was talking to her. She came within inches of touching me, then backed off, then she seemed puzzled.

It's nice to get results so quickly.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I've been focusing a lot on body language too. Never really considered it before, but I've been following this guy's work a lot lately and came across this the other day:
 

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what did you do to get that result?
 

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what did you do to get that result?
Chin up, neck/back straight (no hunching), chest held up, strong eye contact, deliberate movements, honest conversation... all this without exaggeration. Its easy to over do it. Takes energy too. Go easy!!!
 

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Chin up, neck/back straight (no hunching), chest held up, strong eye contact, deliberate movements, honest conversation... all this without exaggeration. Its easy to over do it. Takes energy too. Go easy!!!
hmm sounds difficult
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Body language is incredibly powerful. In fact it compromises the majority of your communication with another person.
 

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Body language is incredibly powerful. In fact it compromises the majority of your communication with another person.
Yes, it seems too easy now. Getting attention from random girls seemed impossible before. Not anymore, my life is changed!!!:D It's daily, not counting my uber riders.
 
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