"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Catch and a Half.

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Some of you may know... I've been working on confidence body language skills.

Some random Sprouts worker went to grab my arm as I was talking to her. She came within inches of touching me, then backed off, then she seemed puzzled.

It's nice to get results so quickly.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I've been focusing a lot on body language too. Never really considered it before, but I've been following this guy's work a lot lately and came across this the other day:
 

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what did you do to get that result?
 

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what did you do to get that result?
Chin up, neck/back straight (no hunching), chest held up, strong eye contact, deliberate movements, honest conversation... all this without exaggeration. Its easy to over do it. Takes energy too. Go easy!!!
 

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Chin up, neck/back straight (no hunching), chest held up, strong eye contact, deliberate movements, honest conversation... all this without exaggeration. Its easy to over do it. Takes energy too. Go easy!!!
hmm sounds difficult
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Body language is incredibly powerful. In fact it compromises the majority of your communication with another person.
 

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Body language is incredibly powerful. In fact it compromises the majority of your communication with another person.
Yes, it seems too easy now. Getting attention from random girls seemed impossible before. Not anymore, my life is changed!!!:D It's daily, not counting my uber riders.
 
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