"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Catch and a Half.

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Some of you may know... I've been working on confidence body language skills.

Some random Sprouts worker went to grab my arm as I was talking to her. She came within inches of touching me, then backed off, then she seemed puzzled.

It's nice to get results so quickly.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I've been focusing a lot on body language too. Never really considered it before, but I've been following this guy's work a lot lately and came across this the other day:
 

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what did you do to get that result?
 

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what did you do to get that result?
Chin up, neck/back straight (no hunching), chest held up, strong eye contact, deliberate movements, honest conversation... all this without exaggeration. Its easy to over do it. Takes energy too. Go easy!!!
 

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Chin up, neck/back straight (no hunching), chest held up, strong eye contact, deliberate movements, honest conversation... all this without exaggeration. Its easy to over do it. Takes energy too. Go easy!!!
hmm sounds difficult
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

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Body language is incredibly powerful. In fact it compromises the majority of your communication with another person.
 

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Body language is incredibly powerful. In fact it compromises the majority of your communication with another person.
Yes, it seems too easy now. Getting attention from random girls seemed impossible before. Not anymore, my life is changed!!!:D It's daily, not counting my uber riders.
 
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