"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Case Study: She Had a One Night Stand
- Thread starter bigneil
- Start date
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You sound like a Hillary supporter. Zero facts. Just feel good quotes designed to appeal to your other user accounts. Explain how I am delusional? You know she swallowed that night, correct? I could have chosen the happy ending.
You are delusional to think a 46 year old man gets a 21 year old beauty queen to commit to him automatically. Let's face it: you've never dated any women more than a few years younger than you, and you can't stand to be put to shame like this. I made you realize that you should be with a 22 year old, and your last date was 52. So keep telling yourself there must be a catch.
#UnF*ckBigneil
Sorry but I don't want a blow job.
Sad to observe your testament to the forum that you never experienced true love. No wonder you wish I dumped her before that happened!
That happened at about the 3 month mark, thanks to the fact I didn't expect a commitment at 1.5 months and dump her like many of you buffoons suggested. Worst case she is a FB. This notion of dumping a hot girl who is having sex with you is preposterous. I am dating the hottest girl of any member and you know it.
You guys are talking in circles now. What is your point again?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Zero facts, all the time. Thank you Spinach.
To summarize, Spinach says... something. Not sure what the point was. I guess he says "I'm 49 and would prefer not to sleep with that young hottie with an as-s that can crack walnuts if she doesn't wear a burka by the second date". Back to your curried rice.
Milano
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Problem is that he needs to marry them first before sex, and he must make sure to get a top education and job. Still, in a way it sounds like music to my ears that this is even possible in 2017. I mean a 23 year old sexy virgin? wtf. These guys are working all around you and have their own old school strict upbringing of girls, at least some. Talk about segregation.
It kinda makes you dream of the blue pill society again(?) but then getting a muslim virgin would mean you get a lot of crazy relatives up ur arse eventually I assume.