"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Case Study: She Had a One Night Stand
- Thread starter bigneil
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You sound like a Hillary supporter. Zero facts. Just feel good quotes designed to appeal to your other user accounts. Explain how I am delusional? You know she swallowed that night, correct? I could have chosen the happy ending.
You are delusional to think a 46 year old man gets a 21 year old beauty queen to commit to him automatically. Let's face it: you've never dated any women more than a few years younger than you, and you can't stand to be put to shame like this. I made you realize that you should be with a 22 year old, and your last date was 52. So keep telling yourself there must be a catch.
#UnF*ckBigneil
Sorry but I don't want a blow job.
Sad to observe your testament to the forum that you never experienced true love. No wonder you wish I dumped her before that happened!
That happened at about the 3 month mark, thanks to the fact I didn't expect a commitment at 1.5 months and dump her like many of you buffoons suggested. Worst case she is a FB. This notion of dumping a hot girl who is having sex with you is preposterous. I am dating the hottest girl of any member and you know it.
You guys are talking in circles now. What is your point again?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Zero facts, all the time. Thank you Spinach.
To summarize, Spinach says... something. Not sure what the point was. I guess he says "I'm 49 and would prefer not to sleep with that young hottie with an as-s that can crack walnuts if she doesn't wear a burka by the second date". Back to your curried rice.
Milano
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Problem is that he needs to marry them first before sex, and he must make sure to get a top education and job. Still, in a way it sounds like music to my ears that this is even possible in 2017. I mean a 23 year old sexy virgin? wtf. These guys are working all around you and have their own old school strict upbringing of girls, at least some. Talk about segregation.
It kinda makes you dream of the blue pill society again(?) but then getting a muslim virgin would mean you get a lot of crazy relatives up ur arse eventually I assume.