"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Case Study: She Had a One Night Stand
- Thread starter bigneil
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
You sound like a Hillary supporter. Zero facts. Just feel good quotes designed to appeal to your other user accounts. Explain how I am delusional? You know she swallowed that night, correct? I could have chosen the happy ending.
You are delusional to think a 46 year old man gets a 21 year old beauty queen to commit to him automatically. Let's face it: you've never dated any women more than a few years younger than you, and you can't stand to be put to shame like this. I made you realize that you should be with a 22 year old, and your last date was 52. So keep telling yourself there must be a catch.
#UnF*ckBigneil
Sorry but I don't want a blow job.
Sad to observe your testament to the forum that you never experienced true love. No wonder you wish I dumped her before that happened!
That happened at about the 3 month mark, thanks to the fact I didn't expect a commitment at 1.5 months and dump her like many of you buffoons suggested. Worst case she is a FB. This notion of dumping a hot girl who is having sex with you is preposterous. I am dating the hottest girl of any member and you know it.
You guys are talking in circles now. What is your point again?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Zero facts, all the time. Thank you Spinach.
To summarize, Spinach says... something. Not sure what the point was. I guess he says "I'm 49 and would prefer not to sleep with that young hottie with an as-s that can crack walnuts if she doesn't wear a burka by the second date". Back to your curried rice.
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Problem is that he needs to marry them first before sex, and he must make sure to get a top education and job. Still, in a way it sounds like music to my ears that this is even possible in 2017. I mean a 23 year old sexy virgin? wtf. These guys are working all around you and have their own old school strict upbringing of girls, at least some. Talk about segregation.
It kinda makes you dream of the blue pill society again(?) but then getting a muslim virgin would mean you get a lot of crazy relatives up ur arse eventually I assume.