"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Case Study: She Had a One Night Stand
- Thread starter bigneil
- Start date
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
You sound like a Hillary supporter. Zero facts. Just feel good quotes designed to appeal to your other user accounts. Explain how I am delusional? You know she swallowed that night, correct? I could have chosen the happy ending.
You are delusional to think a 46 year old man gets a 21 year old beauty queen to commit to him automatically. Let's face it: you've never dated any women more than a few years younger than you, and you can't stand to be put to shame like this. I made you realize that you should be with a 22 year old, and your last date was 52. So keep telling yourself there must be a catch.
#UnF*ckBigneil
Sorry but I don't want a blow job.
Sad to observe your testament to the forum that you never experienced true love. No wonder you wish I dumped her before that happened!
That happened at about the 3 month mark, thanks to the fact I didn't expect a commitment at 1.5 months and dump her like many of you buffoons suggested. Worst case she is a FB. This notion of dumping a hot girl who is having sex with you is preposterous. I am dating the hottest girl of any member and you know it.
You guys are talking in circles now. What is your point again?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Zero facts, all the time. Thank you Spinach.
To summarize, Spinach says... something. Not sure what the point was. I guess he says "I'm 49 and would prefer not to sleep with that young hottie with an as-s that can crack walnuts if she doesn't wear a burka by the second date". Back to your curried rice.
Milano
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Problem is that he needs to marry them first before sex, and he must make sure to get a top education and job. Still, in a way it sounds like music to my ears that this is even possible in 2017. I mean a 23 year old sexy virgin? wtf. These guys are working all around you and have their own old school strict upbringing of girls, at least some. Talk about segregation.
It kinda makes you dream of the blue pill society again(?) but then getting a muslim virgin would mean you get a lot of crazy relatives up ur arse eventually I assume.