"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Casanovas fourteen year old bride!

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Currently reading Casanovas memoirs. I notice back in the 1700's men actually had sex with 14 year olds & everyone was ok with this. Law must of obviously been different back then.

I'm on the third volume now & Casanova has just met a fourteen year old girl. He has smoothed her family over & told the reader he is in love with the girl & is going to give her a ring.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Currently reading Casanovas memoirs. I notice back in the 1700's men actually had sex with 14 year olds & everyone was ok with this. Law must of obviously been different back then.

I'm on the third volume now & Casanova has just met a fourteen year old girl. He has smoothed her family over & told the reader he is in love with the girl & is going to give her a ring.
Great!

There's another one of my heroes down the drain!

First I learn that Mystery is a little b1tch phaggot, now this.

But seriously I think Benjamin Franklin did the same thing.
 

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My last girlfriend lost her virginity at 14.

God made women fertile at that age. Was God a perv? It's only society that holds us back until age 18. Then women are old at 22.

I think that 15 is adulthood and 16 should be age of consent (as many states are).
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You must be an idiot or highly uneducated. Probably both. In the past centuries and different civilizations for example Shakespearean times. Individuals were adults at the age of 15 around there. As life spans were rather short due(maybe 40s if lucky) to diseases and the unsanitary living conditions
 

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Currently reading Casanovas memoirs. I notice back in the 1700's men actually had sex with 14 year olds & everyone was ok with this. Law must of obviously been different back then.
Heck, in the '50s, a 13 year old woman could get married in a state like Mississippi; just ask Jerry Lee Lewis! :eek::eek:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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