LegalSeduction
Don Juan
you guys who get tons of numbers/email addresses.. do you carry around a pad of paper? where do you have the girl write her info?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
thanksOriginally posted by BrotherAP
I use my cell phone, I flip it open, press "Add New Entry", then I have her dial her number into it. Call me old-fashioned, if you will.
lolOriginally posted by TheJoe
e-mail?!?!! call me old fashioned but i still use a chain of beacons.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
won't it take too long to put an email address into a phone?the phone works best.![]()
thanks, i'm glad that works for you. i still want to get the email address though. any ideas? is a small notepad the way to go? i'm a student, so no business cardsOriginally posted by hungry_american
I wouldn't ask for an email address. Its too un-personal, or just something about saying "Hey HB can I have your email address" just makes mee feel nerdy. When talking to a HB, just say: "hey well talk to you later, I should call you sometime and we can hangout or go to a party", not too direct or indirect IMO.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
DNBA Soljah! :cheer:Originally posted by darthsidious
i masturbate and sperm all over their clothes
thanks. yeah, i carry around a pen normally, but the piece of paper is the problem for me. i think a notepad would be too obvious right? maybe i should get tons of different people's business cards, and carry one of each person's card in my wallet, and have girls write on that?Originally posted by hungry_american
Sorry, I guess I didn't even try to answer your question. He is right. Don't come too prepared that would deffinatley lose points unless you had your binder with you at school but schools out. Alteast for me, foreverMost girls cary purses or something lke a purse and have a pen or something to jot down anything and so just be like do you have something to write with and write it on any piece of paper or on your hand? I have no idea I guess.
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lol.. ever heard of a cell phone phonebook? a pad of paper would be so lame. and dont even think about asking for email, not only is that stupid, but email is archaic these days... for work and keeping up with people you rarely see.Originally posted by LegalSeduction
you guys who get tons of numbers/email addresses.. do you carry around a pad of paper? where do you have the girl write her info?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Don't you have a cellphone?Originally posted by LegalSeduction
you guys who get tons of numbers/email addresses.. do you carry around a pad of paper? where do you have the girl write her info?