"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Carry around a pad of paper?

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I use my cell phone, I flip it open, press "Add New Entry", then I have her dial her number into it. Call me old-fashioned, if you will.
 

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Originally posted by BrotherAP
I use my cell phone, I flip it open, press "Add New Entry", then I have her dial her number into it. Call me old-fashioned, if you will.
thanks

any advice for guys asking for email addresses too (other than "don't ask for email" lol)?
 

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e-mail?!?!! call me old fashioned but i still use a chain of beacons.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Forget that guys, I ask for their address and mail them a greeting card from Walmart, Nah the phone works best. ;)
 

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I wouldn't ask for an email address. Its too un-personal, or just something about saying "Hey HB can I have your email address" just makes mee feel nerdy. When talking to a HB, just say: "hey well talk to you later, I should call you sometime and we can hangout or go to a party", not too direct or indirect IMO.
 

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Originally posted by hungry_american
I wouldn't ask for an email address. Its too un-personal, or just something about saying "Hey HB can I have your email address" just makes mee feel nerdy. When talking to a HB, just say: "hey well talk to you later, I should call you sometime and we can hangout or go to a party", not too direct or indirect IMO.
thanks, i'm glad that works for you. i still want to get the email address though. any ideas? is a small notepad the way to go? i'm a student, so no business cards
 

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I tried that once, but then I realized pretty quick that if you come TOO WELL prepared, you definately lose points.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Sorry, I guess I didn't even try to answer your question. He is right. Don't come too prepared that would deffinatley lose points unless you had your binder with you at school but schools out. Alteast for me, forever :) Most girls cary purses or something lke a purse and have a pen or something to jot down anything and so just be like do you have something to write with and write it on any piece of paper or on your hand? I have no idea I guess. :confused:
 

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Originally posted by hungry_american
Sorry, I guess I didn't even try to answer your question. He is right. Don't come too prepared that would deffinatley lose points unless you had your binder with you at school but schools out. Alteast for me, forever :) Most girls cary purses or something lke a purse and have a pen or something to jot down anything and so just be like do you have something to write with and write it on any piece of paper or on your hand? I have no idea I guess. :confused:
thanks. yeah, i carry around a pen normally, but the piece of paper is the problem for me. i think a notepad would be too obvious right? maybe i should get tons of different people's business cards, and carry one of each person's card in my wallet, and have girls write on that?

any other ideas?
 

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Originally posted by LegalSeduction
you guys who get tons of numbers/email addresses.. do you carry around a pad of paper? where do you have the girl write her info?
lol.. ever heard of a cell phone phonebook? a pad of paper would be so lame. and dont even think about asking for email, not only is that stupid, but email is archaic these days... for work and keeping up with people you rarely see.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Originally posted by LegalSeduction
you guys who get tons of numbers/email addresses.. do you carry around a pad of paper? where do you have the girl write her info?
Don't you have a cellphone?
 

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If you have a pen, but no paper then just write it on your hand (not the palm because ink smears easy)
 

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I used to carry one of those micro-marble notebooks and a small pen.

I would fill it up with "junk thoughts" so it didn't look like I was just a tremendous dog.

These days, I, like many above, just use the cell.
 

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If you're a student does that mean you have a diary with timetable and all that kinda crap? Well thats where you write emails. Works for me, except of course when they are sitting waiting for you to find a page not already covered in email addresses.;)
 
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