LegalSeduction
Don Juan
you guys who get tons of numbers/email addresses.. do you carry around a pad of paper? where do you have the girl write her info?
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
thanksOriginally posted by BrotherAP
I use my cell phone, I flip it open, press "Add New Entry", then I have her dial her number into it. Call me old-fashioned, if you will.
lolOriginally posted by TheJoe
e-mail?!?!! call me old fashioned but i still use a chain of beacons.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
won't it take too long to put an email address into a phone?the phone works best.![]()
thanks, i'm glad that works for you. i still want to get the email address though. any ideas? is a small notepad the way to go? i'm a student, so no business cardsOriginally posted by hungry_american
I wouldn't ask for an email address. Its too un-personal, or just something about saying "Hey HB can I have your email address" just makes mee feel nerdy. When talking to a HB, just say: "hey well talk to you later, I should call you sometime and we can hangout or go to a party", not too direct or indirect IMO.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
DNBA Soljah! :cheer:Originally posted by darthsidious
i masturbate and sperm all over their clothes
thanks. yeah, i carry around a pen normally, but the piece of paper is the problem for me. i think a notepad would be too obvious right? maybe i should get tons of different people's business cards, and carry one of each person's card in my wallet, and have girls write on that?Originally posted by hungry_american
Sorry, I guess I didn't even try to answer your question. He is right. Don't come too prepared that would deffinatley lose points unless you had your binder with you at school but schools out. Alteast for me, foreverMost girls cary purses or something lke a purse and have a pen or something to jot down anything and so just be like do you have something to write with and write it on any piece of paper or on your hand? I have no idea I guess.
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lol.. ever heard of a cell phone phonebook? a pad of paper would be so lame. and dont even think about asking for email, not only is that stupid, but email is archaic these days... for work and keeping up with people you rarely see.Originally posted by LegalSeduction
you guys who get tons of numbers/email addresses.. do you carry around a pad of paper? where do you have the girl write her info?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Don't you have a cellphone?Originally posted by LegalSeduction
you guys who get tons of numbers/email addresses.. do you carry around a pad of paper? where do you have the girl write her info?