Captain save a hoe

[Lordeterra]

I've heard constant horror stories of being captain save a hoe and it doesn't work but I care about this girl. She's very skinny (95 pounds at 5'2). She seems pretty depressed but I don't know. I want her to eat well and go.tk the gym. She eats like garbage (sugar, all the processed crap). Should I just let her do her? I can tell she looks up to me. I want her to do well anyone have experience with this?

 

[Georgepithyou]

So you care about her, but does she care about you just as much?

 

[darksprezzatura]

There's a slight difference between being a nice guy and a good guy.

Nice guys are entitled manipulative cucks who think helping a chick scores them brownie points to get laid.

Check intentions.

 

[Kotaix]

I've had women that very much look up to me and say that I've inspired them to go to the gym more. But they never do it, they just continue being fat and lazy, complain about how hard it is to lose weight and make excuses how their skin will get all saggy if they lose weight because they let themselves get too fat.

It's next to impossible to get people to change their lives if they aren't ready to make a change, that has to come from within. Most people will get offended that you think they need more work because they feel judged. It takes true finesse to change someone's mindset.

You can try, but there's a good chance she'll grow to hate you if you keep pointing out her flaws. Her ego will fight back.

 

[Bible_Belt]

Well, how much of a hoe is she? There is some background missing to this story.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

So you care about her, but does she care about you just as much?

/thread

 

[mrgoodstuff]

All you can do is set an example and let people choose to follow on their own.

 

[Poonani Maker]

I've got one like this too, eats nothing but carbs (potato chips especially, and salty processed store fridge dinners). She doesn't like the taste of meat (so Never has). She buys me stuff though, and I suppose she thinks she's making an investment, in order to make me take her in sooner or later. She supposedly has no friends and lives at home even though almost 30 (couple years).

 

[Lordeterra]

I've got one like this too, eats nothing but carbs (potato chips especially, and salty processed store fridge dinners). She doesn't like the taste of meat (so Never has). She buys me stuff though, and I suppose she thinks she's making an investment, in order to make me take her in sooner or later. She supposedly has no friends and lives at home even though almost 30 (couple years).

Yeah she buys me food all the time

 

[Poonani Maker]

Yeah she buys me food all the time

mine bought me a couple of paintings to go on my walls and she's poor

 

[Lordeterra]

mine bought me a couple of paintings to go on my walls and she's poor

Same. She's poor to. Why TF is she doing this. She also drives an hour and a half almost everyday to see me.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Same. She's poor to. Why TF is she doing this. She also drives an hour and a half almost everyday to see me.

Commitment.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

50/50 on whether this is a troll post

 

[Lordeterra]

Commitment.

I talk about other girls around her to keep her hooked but everytime I do she is genuinely mad and brings up another dude she's ****ing. But seems like she really likes me and just wants me jealous.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I talk about other girls around her to keep her hooked but everytime I do she is genuinely mad and brings up another dude she's ****ing. But seems like she really likes me and just wants me jealous.

You shouldn't let her drive that far EVERY day. Cause she'll burn out and blame you.

 

[Medina]

You "save a hoe" when you become the best man you can be for YOURSELF and women start to behave themselves and feel safe in your masculine energy

You don't help. You lead

 

[darksprezzatura]

All you can do is set an example and let people choose to follow on their own.

Can't emphasise this more

 

[Lookatu]

Only give her advice if she asks for it or has curiosity. If you don't see her proactively changing her ways in the way you want, keep her at the plate status level and don't get your emotions tied up. It doesn't mean though that you can't help her improve herself whether you end up with her or not.

I know her heart might be in the right place or she might be making a lot of effort for you but bottom line is if she doesn't have the same lifestyle you have and isn't proactively trying to better herself, it will never work. Also consider her making bad decisions like driving that far to see you will transfer into other areas of life(finance for example).

 

[Lordeterra]

Here is a tweet from a women i just read. It may help you Captain save a hoe.

"Men, don’t let your wife disrespect you.

Deep down, we want to be told what to do.

Tell us what to do and we’ll follow you wholeheartedly."

Heres the link. They are bad at advice but good at revieling truth in moments of clarity lol

https://twitter.com/i/web/status/1343682677409337344

Last night during bed I don't know if she was testing me but she kept trying to not say what I wanted her to say. I told her to say im daddy's slut and she kept saying wh0re instead. And it's true. I put her on a leash last night and made her my little pet. She called me a b1tch last night though because I kept whining about my headache. Is she doing this to test? I put my hand around her throat and told her not to say it again

 

[Lordeterra]

If she's into it go for it. And the headache thing. Yea dont whine go like a soldier man. Take some Tylenol.

Yeah need to learn to man up. I'm 25 and I need a ****ing male mentor man.