"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Can't get this mindset about females out of my head
- Thread starter JPlaya
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
McMotherLover
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YouKnowI'mRight
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As far as median averages go, girls have had sex with twice as many guys than the guys have had with girls.....there's the 5% of guys have been screwing much more than their share. They're the ones who don't kiss and tell any where it would screw up the reputation of the girls.JPlaya said:
The attitude of being grossed out gives off a vibe self-perpetuates the girls seeking out the 5% that aren't grossed out by the fact that all people have sex except for those who want to be weeded out of the gene pool.
Fact: Girls are having sex with the really cool guys who have purpose and strong willpower and decisiveness and keep their mouths shut/no gossip about sexual exploits etc etc etc. Get over it and join the 5% or stay with the 95% that's not getting lots of punani.
nismo-4
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I'm working on getting in this 10%. :yes:
Women can get sex anytime she wants to. Most men don't have that luxury.
Men getting with women isn't a job interview or 1 vs. 100, but it might as well be because she's trying to decide if you're fit enough for her compared to the 100 other guys who are after her. And all she has to do is say yes or no. If a man says no to her, she won't be hurt. She'll have another man in a New York second.
Women are so much better at banding together to raise the price of pu$$y than men are to lower the price of it.
The point is: Women ALWAYS have options. You need to do likewise. And be among the best (OR THE BEST) option she has. :yes:
Case closed.
I used to feel like this until I saw the big picture and realised that that's just life. Women you go with have been with tonnes of men before you, and there will be tonnes more after. People move on.JPlaya said:
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
5string
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As far as getting it out of your head, you don't. You either put it in the back of your mind, or convince yourself you don't give a fvck and there is nothing you can do about it anyway.
coochieman
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Try bein' her best fucck if you wanna. No time to be listenin' to her " just-two-previous-sex-partners", "i value my body a lot" or "i'm not like other girls" story.
"she say she only **** like four, five niggazz... So you know you gotta multiply by three"
- J.Cole: Nobody's Perfect.
Go DJ.
corrector
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That doesn't work because you'll see her as a slvt and it will come out subconciously in other ways. I tried to do this with some women and I remember I offended a girl twice by asking questions that betrayed this sublimination. For example, I asked one girl how many guys she slept with when she said she's been with other guys. Another girl I asked her who these guys were coming around the car where she lived and I felt threatened and ask her if she sleept with any of them them? Once that slvt image is formed in your head and you put it on the back of your mind it can explode like a bomb.5string said:
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
corrector
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As you guessed it I'm just kidding. I've never been with a prostitute or escort myself, although with all the sh1t crappy quality of women out there the, the thought has crossed my mind since I'll just it would make me less judgmental since most women are hoes anyway. Some alpha-make douchebag probably hot into her pants or gagged her and probably taped it while you are thinking here is a nice quality woman. ha ha ha. Some of these 5% of guys probably have hidden cameras and upload stuff to porn sites for money.
5string
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Have to disagree brother. I banged tons of women over the course of my life. Guess that makes me a slvt huh? Because I did that, does it me a trashy fvckin guy not worthy of a great partner? No way. Same goes for females. To sit here and think that women can't go get some when they need it is ludicrous. Face it, they get horny just like us. May I dare say that this is a double standard?corrector said:
And your problem was that you asked. Big, big mistake. Don't ask and you won't become "threatened."
Don't ask, don't tell. Just be the man and give your woman what she desires.
Naughty Ninja
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
5string
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That's right. And regardless of the equipment between your legs, nobody's and angel. It's a fact of life.remotecontrol said: