"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Can't get this mindset about females out of my head
- Thread starter JPlaya
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
McMotherLover
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YouKnowI'mRight
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As far as median averages go, girls have had sex with twice as many guys than the guys have had with girls.....there's the 5% of guys have been screwing much more than their share. They're the ones who don't kiss and tell any where it would screw up the reputation of the girls.JPlaya said:
The attitude of being grossed out gives off a vibe self-perpetuates the girls seeking out the 5% that aren't grossed out by the fact that all people have sex except for those who want to be weeded out of the gene pool.
Fact: Girls are having sex with the really cool guys who have purpose and strong willpower and decisiveness and keep their mouths shut/no gossip about sexual exploits etc etc etc. Get over it and join the 5% or stay with the 95% that's not getting lots of punani.
nismo-4
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I'm working on getting in this 10%. :yes:
Women can get sex anytime she wants to. Most men don't have that luxury.
Men getting with women isn't a job interview or 1 vs. 100, but it might as well be because she's trying to decide if you're fit enough for her compared to the 100 other guys who are after her. And all she has to do is say yes or no. If a man says no to her, she won't be hurt. She'll have another man in a New York second.
Women are so much better at banding together to raise the price of pu$$y than men are to lower the price of it.
The point is: Women ALWAYS have options. You need to do likewise. And be among the best (OR THE BEST) option she has. :yes:
Case closed.
I used to feel like this until I saw the big picture and realised that that's just life. Women you go with have been with tonnes of men before you, and there will be tonnes more after. People move on.JPlaya said:
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
5string
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As far as getting it out of your head, you don't. You either put it in the back of your mind, or convince yourself you don't give a fvck and there is nothing you can do about it anyway.
coochieman
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Try bein' her best fucck if you wanna. No time to be listenin' to her " just-two-previous-sex-partners", "i value my body a lot" or "i'm not like other girls" story.
"she say she only **** like four, five niggazz... So you know you gotta multiply by three"
- J.Cole: Nobody's Perfect.
Go DJ.
corrector
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That doesn't work because you'll see her as a slvt and it will come out subconciously in other ways. I tried to do this with some women and I remember I offended a girl twice by asking questions that betrayed this sublimination. For example, I asked one girl how many guys she slept with when she said she's been with other guys. Another girl I asked her who these guys were coming around the car where she lived and I felt threatened and ask her if she sleept with any of them them? Once that slvt image is formed in your head and you put it on the back of your mind it can explode like a bomb.5string said:
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
corrector
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As you guessed it I'm just kidding. I've never been with a prostitute or escort myself, although with all the sh1t crappy quality of women out there the, the thought has crossed my mind since I'll just it would make me less judgmental since most women are hoes anyway. Some alpha-make douchebag probably hot into her pants or gagged her and probably taped it while you are thinking here is a nice quality woman. ha ha ha. Some of these 5% of guys probably have hidden cameras and upload stuff to porn sites for money.
5string
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Have to disagree brother. I banged tons of women over the course of my life. Guess that makes me a slvt huh? Because I did that, does it me a trashy fvckin guy not worthy of a great partner? No way. Same goes for females. To sit here and think that women can't go get some when they need it is ludicrous. Face it, they get horny just like us. May I dare say that this is a double standard?corrector said:
And your problem was that you asked. Big, big mistake. Don't ask and you won't become "threatened."
Don't ask, don't tell. Just be the man and give your woman what she desires.
Naughty Ninja
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
5string
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That's right. And regardless of the equipment between your legs, nobody's and angel. It's a fact of life.remotecontrol said: