"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Can't get over girlfriends past

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yeah you cry about something that DIDNT HAPPEN :eek::eek::D:D:D if it was written by @bigneil I would be sure its troll thread :D
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I'm upset that she ever had anything to do with that guy, see point is we could have been dating since last year, it's just that I fell for another girl who led me on while this guy chased her and got her, so, we could have done everything together for the first time, because if you saw those two in public even you'd think wtf is going on, they looked like siblings, so I just hate the fact that it wasn't her and I throughout, and she tells me herself our relationship is thousand times better than theirs, so it just hurts me he got to be intimate with her when he didn't deserve to
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Nono I trust her, reason being : she told me he pressurised her to have sex and she said no while we were just friends, we weren't dating. And when we started dating and I got to second base with her I made a comment like " there's always a first time " because I thought that dude is so ugly she wouldn't have given him a chance lol, she herself later told me " I have done that before and Nothing further" I asked her again if there is anything else I need to know and she said no, I flipped after getting all information lol
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don't trust so much without proof, plus since you react that way chances are she will never really tell the truth if she did otherwise[/QUOTE
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Alvafe said:
don't trust so much without proof, plus since you react that way chances are she will never really tell the truth if she did otherwise
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Alvafe said:
don't trust so much without proof, plus since you react that way chances are she will never really tell the truth if she did otherwise
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Alvafe said:
don't trust so much without proof, plus since you react that way chances are she will never really tell the truth if she did otherwise
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I understand everyone's point, what I want to know is what do I do when these intrusive negative thoughts come up? Think of my memories with her or something?
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Tell yourself that someone so whiney and fussy is lucky to have a girl in the first place. And then snap out of it before you blow it.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Tell yourself that someone so whiney and fussy is lucky to have a girl in the first place. And then snap out of it before you blow it.
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I don't do this infront of her don't worry, I tell her that her past has made her the person she is and I love that person, but sometimes I get triggered knowing that I could have had her since the very beginning if only I was hanging out with her, and she told me she liked me when she was dating that other guy, that didn't help either -.-
 
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Desperate dudes with no options do desperate things.

Ridiculous.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I mean you basically threw a hissy fit and acted ridiculous, how much more needs to be said??

Acting like that kills attraction faster than a fat person eats an entire pizza
 
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