"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Can't get over girlfriends past

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yeah you cry about something that DIDNT HAPPEN :eek::eek::D:D:D if it was written by @bigneil I would be sure its troll thread :D
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I'm upset that she ever had anything to do with that guy, see point is we could have been dating since last year, it's just that I fell for another girl who led me on while this guy chased her and got her, so, we could have done everything together for the first time, because if you saw those two in public even you'd think wtf is going on, they looked like siblings, so I just hate the fact that it wasn't her and I throughout, and she tells me herself our relationship is thousand times better than theirs, so it just hurts me he got to be intimate with her when he didn't deserve to
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Nono I trust her, reason being : she told me he pressurised her to have sex and she said no while we were just friends, we weren't dating. And when we started dating and I got to second base with her I made a comment like " there's always a first time " because I thought that dude is so ugly she wouldn't have given him a chance lol, she herself later told me " I have done that before and Nothing further" I asked her again if there is anything else I need to know and she said no, I flipped after getting all information lol
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don't trust so much without proof, plus since you react that way chances are she will never really tell the truth if she did otherwise[/QUOTE
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Alvafe said:
don't trust so much without proof, plus since you react that way chances are she will never really tell the truth if she did otherwise
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Alvafe said:
don't trust so much without proof, plus since you react that way chances are she will never really tell the truth if she did otherwise
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Alvafe said:
don't trust so much without proof, plus since you react that way chances are she will never really tell the truth if she did otherwise
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I understand everyone's point, what I want to know is what do I do when these intrusive negative thoughts come up? Think of my memories with her or something?
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Tell yourself that someone so whiney and fussy is lucky to have a girl in the first place. And then snap out of it before you blow it.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Tell yourself that someone so whiney and fussy is lucky to have a girl in the first place. And then snap out of it before you blow it.
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I don't do this infront of her don't worry, I tell her that her past has made her the person she is and I love that person, but sometimes I get triggered knowing that I could have had her since the very beginning if only I was hanging out with her, and she told me she liked me when she was dating that other guy, that didn't help either -.-
 
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Desperate dudes with no options do desperate things.

Ridiculous.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I mean you basically threw a hissy fit and acted ridiculous, how much more needs to be said??

Acting like that kills attraction faster than a fat person eats an entire pizza
 
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