"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Can't get over girlfriends past

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sosousage said:
yeah you cry about something that DIDNT HAPPEN :eek::eek::D:D:D if it was written by @bigneil I would be sure its troll thread :D
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I'm upset that she ever had anything to do with that guy, see point is we could have been dating since last year, it's just that I fell for another girl who led me on while this guy chased her and got her, so, we could have done everything together for the first time, because if you saw those two in public even you'd think wtf is going on, they looked like siblings, so I just hate the fact that it wasn't her and I throughout, and she tells me herself our relationship is thousand times better than theirs, so it just hurts me he got to be intimate with her when he didn't deserve to
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Nono I trust her, reason being : she told me he pressurised her to have sex and she said no while we were just friends, we weren't dating. And when we started dating and I got to second base with her I made a comment like " there's always a first time " because I thought that dude is so ugly she wouldn't have given him a chance lol, she herself later told me " I have done that before and Nothing further" I asked her again if there is anything else I need to know and she said no, I flipped after getting all information lol
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don't trust so much without proof, plus since you react that way chances are she will never really tell the truth if she did otherwise[/QUOTE
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Alvafe said:
don't trust so much without proof, plus since you react that way chances are she will never really tell the truth if she did otherwise
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Alvafe said:
don't trust so much without proof, plus since you react that way chances are she will never really tell the truth if she did otherwise
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Alvafe said:
don't trust so much without proof, plus since you react that way chances are she will never really tell the truth if she did otherwise
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I understand everyone's point, what I want to know is what do I do when these intrusive negative thoughts come up? Think of my memories with her or something?
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Tell yourself that someone so whiney and fussy is lucky to have a girl in the first place. And then snap out of it before you blow it.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Tell yourself that someone so whiney and fussy is lucky to have a girl in the first place. And then snap out of it before you blow it.
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I don't do this infront of her don't worry, I tell her that her past has made her the person she is and I love that person, but sometimes I get triggered knowing that I could have had her since the very beginning if only I was hanging out with her, and she told me she liked me when she was dating that other guy, that didn't help either -.-
 
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Desperate dudes with no options do desperate things.

Ridiculous.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I mean you basically threw a hissy fit and acted ridiculous, how much more needs to be said??

Acting like that kills attraction faster than a fat person eats an entire pizza
 
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