I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Yes because that will take care of muscle atrophy as you get olderRampage1 said:for general health do cardio and keep your heart healthy, don't do deadlifts!
fair enough if you want to pursue powerlifting though! not my cup of tea though
One of the main factors that contribute to older peoples' weight gain is that they lose muscle as they age, which means they burn less calories, therefore eating similar amounts combined with fewer calories burned per day = weight gain. Basic mass building exercises help keep/increase muscle, thus helping them stay lean.Rampage1 said:for general health do cardio and keep your heart healthy, don't do deadlifts!
fair enough if you want to pursue powerlifting though! not my cup of tea though
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
See my comment...Rampage1 said:Which isnt necessarily much of a health benefit, more of an appearance benefit!
Yes there is because of the misinformation you posted above.Rampage1 said:no need for a discussion on whether or not how muscle atrophy affects overall health!
Thank you.Rampage1 said:goodluck with that
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.