Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
You type better drunk than lots of guys here do sober....mtnbiker said:Feel like an a** but at least I now know. I was out all night with friends having some fun so I'm not in my right frame of mind and should have done a second search/look tomorrow night sober.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
So how do you suggest men do that? Aside from the typical "go to the gym, dress nicer" advice?DJ bible need some update about the look , it take same PUA approach when they dont put enough weight on look.
Men need to release that look is a real game changer and they should take their look more seriously.
Well when you think about it that's 80% of it.. of course a professional haircut helps as wellSo how do you suggest men do that? Aside from the typical "go to the gym, dress nicer" advice?
Nah, how many a professional trainer at the gym.Well when you think about it that's 80% of it.. of course a professional haircut helps as well
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
I was just trying to get him to expand on what he means.Well when you think about it that's 80% of it.. of course a professional haircut helps as well