"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Cannabis users are resistant to obesity and type 2 diabetes...but at a price...

BackInTheGame78

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Apparently adolescents who smoke weed are in a perpetual "pseudo-lean" state but it's because THC screws up the bodies ability to use fat stores properly...


"Drug-free male mice that had consumed THC as “teens” had reduced fat mass, increased lean mass, had higher-than-average body temperatures, and were partially resistant to both obesity and hyperglycemia. They were in what researchers referred to as a “pseudo-lean” state.

But they also had a reduced ability to use fuel from fat stores—a consequence that can interfere with tasks like moving and thinking, and especially sustaining attention, researchers found.

Similar features are seen in some humans who are frequent cannabis users, they remarked.

The reason for these permanent changes surprised the study’s authors. Once exposed to THC, fat in the mice’s stores began making proteins normally found only in the muscle and the heart. Meanwhile, their muscle cells begin making fewer of the proteins they should. The effort required of fat cells to make these “alien” proteins interferes with the correct, healthy functioning of fat cells, and their ability to store and release nutrients, researchers concluded."


 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Here is the original study:


It’s a challenging read for those without the life science, allied health and medical and biological background. It is well referenced and all the data sets are available. The methodology to conduct the test is well documented as well.

I see nothing wrong with the information presented.

Not sure why anyone would say that it’s biased? In what way? These are published papers, in the open awaiting challenge, so far as I can tell none has been issued.
 

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Yes the study shows that fat metabolism is affected in adolescence and then in adulthood the effects in adulthood are negative: adipose tissues begin to produce protein markers that should not be produced making fat metabolism difficult.

I agree with your statements in general, but the results are not consistent with “yay use pot”!
 

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Yes the study shows that fat metabolism is affected in adolescence and then in adulthood the effects in adulthood are negative: adipose tissues begin to produce protein markers that should not be produced making fat metabolism difficult.

I agree with your statements in general, but the results are not consistent with “yay use pot”!
Agreed...the results are consistent with "Whoa! There is a lot more going on than what we thought and maybe we need to take a much closer look at this".
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I'll have to look for more "420" mentions on OLD.
 

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I have been researching this topic for 35 years as the test subject in my own experiments. I'm still waiting for any problems to appear.
Over 35 years the changes would be slow to the point you likely wouldn't notice until you get to a point it becomes noticeable.
 
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