"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Cannabis users are resistant to obesity and type 2 diabetes...but at a price...

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Apparently adolescents who smoke weed are in a perpetual "pseudo-lean" state but it's because THC screws up the bodies ability to use fat stores properly...


"Drug-free male mice that had consumed THC as “teens” had reduced fat mass, increased lean mass, had higher-than-average body temperatures, and were partially resistant to both obesity and hyperglycemia. They were in what researchers referred to as a “pseudo-lean” state.

But they also had a reduced ability to use fuel from fat stores—a consequence that can interfere with tasks like moving and thinking, and especially sustaining attention, researchers found.

Similar features are seen in some humans who are frequent cannabis users, they remarked.

The reason for these permanent changes surprised the study’s authors. Once exposed to THC, fat in the mice’s stores began making proteins normally found only in the muscle and the heart. Meanwhile, their muscle cells begin making fewer of the proteins they should. The effort required of fat cells to make these “alien” proteins interferes with the correct, healthy functioning of fat cells, and their ability to store and release nutrients, researchers concluded."


 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Here is the original study:


It’s a challenging read for those without the life science, allied health and medical and biological background. It is well referenced and all the data sets are available. The methodology to conduct the test is well documented as well.

I see nothing wrong with the information presented.

Not sure why anyone would say that it’s biased? In what way? These are published papers, in the open awaiting challenge, so far as I can tell none has been issued.
 

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Yes the study shows that fat metabolism is affected in adolescence and then in adulthood the effects in adulthood are negative: adipose tissues begin to produce protein markers that should not be produced making fat metabolism difficult.

I agree with your statements in general, but the results are not consistent with “yay use pot”!
 

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Yes the study shows that fat metabolism is affected in adolescence and then in adulthood the effects in adulthood are negative: adipose tissues begin to produce protein markers that should not be produced making fat metabolism difficult.

I agree with your statements in general, but the results are not consistent with “yay use pot”!
Agreed...the results are consistent with "Whoa! There is a lot more going on than what we thought and maybe we need to take a much closer look at this".
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I'll have to look for more "420" mentions on OLD.
 

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I have been researching this topic for 35 years as the test subject in my own experiments. I'm still waiting for any problems to appear.
Over 35 years the changes would be slow to the point you likely wouldn't notice until you get to a point it becomes noticeable.
 
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