Cancel the date

[bat soup]

If a woman tries to dictate to you where and when to meet, especially if it's some expensive restaurant she wants to go to. Don't fall for it, guys.

 

[MoMoses]

Wanna lie down on the couch and tell us about a nasty experience there Soup?

 

[Sir FB]

I had a woman just change the coffee shop I suggested, I agreed. She was a no show. Some start s*** testing early.

 

[sch]

Yep, if she changes the place to something near her home and wants a restaurant instead of casual coffee shop, than she's just not that interested in you. Or if she wants to get her a cab. Usually I don't speak with those any more.

But that all applies only to girls you haven't slept with before.

 

[bat soup]

Wanna lie down on the couch and tell us about a nasty experience there Soup?

Not just one experience. I've seen it enough times to see a pattern. Women that have genuine interest tend to be compliant and willing to go along with whatever you suggest (within reason, obviously). Women that want a free meal or to take advantage in some way have very specific plans - the more specific, the more likely it's some kind of BS.

 

[MoMoses]

I had a woman just change the coffee shop I suggested, I agreed. She was a no show. Some start s*** testing early.

Chances are higher that she would have shown up if you stood your ground. But then again... you never know what's gonna happen in the magical land of entitled attention who_res

 

[BackInTheGame78]

I had a woman just change the coffee shop I suggested, I agreed. She was a no show. Some start s*** testing early.

I posted a thread on this very thing. Never do this unless there is a very good reason.

 

[bat soup]

Chances are higher that she would have shown up if you stood your ground. But then again... you never know what's gonna happen in the magical land of entitled attention who_res

Maybe, but on the other hand being picky about the location shows low interest from the start. Whilst standing your ground might raise interest sometimes, it also works by filtering out the bull****tters.

I can give an example - a girl I agreed to meet once at a specific location on the beach was trying to insist that I walk down to the other end near the marina rather than where we'd agreed. I didn't have time for that and I didn't feel like walking that far so I told her no. She ended up coming to where I said, but she didn't want to sit at the McDonalds (fair enough, I thought) and we went to a place just across the road from there.

I already was suspicious of her intentions so I watched the menu like a hawk and when she tried to order food, I vetoed it and said I just had just brought enough cash for a coffee. Now here's where she could have said "It's ok, I'll pay for my own food" if she had good intentions but of course she didn't want to eat if she had to pay and so she just ordered a coffee. Later she suggested ordering wine and again I told her no and I said I had to leave.

I could give a lot of other examples, all basically the same. Women that are genuinely interested are compliant and will generally be happy with whatever you suggest. Those that insist on some pre-determined plan tend to be low-interest or up to no good.

 

[Georgepithyou]

The sh!t tests start as soon as she gives you her phone #.

Amd they never end, even after marriage

 

[AureliusMaximus]

Shi't test her instead and take her to a place/activity that women usually would hate, but we guys like doing and see if she sticks around lol

 

[Tilex]

Shi't test her instead and take her to a place/activity that women usually would hate, but we guys like doing and see if she sticks around lol

How about taking her out to see a porno flick?
I immediately thought of Taxi Driver when you said that.

 

[AureliusMaximus]

lmfao that would be funny. Just to see her reaction.
Just priceless!

If she sticks around btw. after that treatment, she is close to being a champ... xD

 

[Glassguy]

Venues, events........it doesnt matter really what we are talking about. As soon as you let a woman radically change your plans, you are in her frame and it isnt going to end well.

This is another reason I dont invite women on DATES. I simply invite them to something I am already doing or I invite them to "grab a drink". She balks, I disappear. She knows where to find me if she adjusts her attitude and wants to be more submissive.

Thats what is going on here anyways. She isnt being submissive to your date/plans/invitation and you play right into it. Stop doing it.

A woman who is not submissive isnt worth wasting time on.

 

[Dust 2 Dust]

For seduction to take place the woman has to submit to your frame. A venue change means shes trying to control the frame.

 

[Paper Crane]

bro what type of women do you know who sets where to go for on a date?

this post doesn't resonate with me at all. as a man, you always dictate what goes on in the date. what type of women are you meeting bro?

 

[BackInTheGame78]

bro what type of women do you know who sets where to go for on a date?

this post doesn't resonate with me at all. as a man, you always dictate what goes on in the date. what type of women are you meeting bro?

Ones who like to try and control men?

 

[bat soup]

Shi't test her instead and take her to a place/activity that women usually would hate, but we guys like doing and see if she sticks around lol

You have to be reasonable. It should be something that no normal person would object to, otherwise you muddy the waters.

You want to find out whether she likes you, not whether she's stupid.