I have an acquaintance who I run into often and we were at the bar together when groups meet up. So I see her once a week or so. And lately we've been sort of flirting/escalating with each other when we see each other. She asked me if I wanted to share a cab to our final destinations as she was leaving. I said no, and I'm staying at the bar longer. Is this something I can recover from next time I see her? I will see her in a week when I go back to her town (she lives in another city). I know some may say I'm reading too much into this but with the background I'm pretty sure what was going on. Do you ever go back and escalate with a woman you denied before?
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Can you recover from denying a woman?
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
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wifehunter
Master Don Juan
Your neediness is showing. Spin plates.
Don't see your problem. You're not easy to get, you had other plans that night. As long you don't apologise to her, I guess you became even more interesting to her.
Keep flirting and escalating and stop worrying about her thoughts.
Keep flirting and escalating and stop worrying about her thoughts.
AllDay85
Senior Don Juan
**** yea. Denying women is a crucial part of game.
You, my friend, just set yourself apart from most guys. Don't ruin it by overanalyzing. Spin plates and do you.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
I ran into her again, and spent about 3 hours with her, when it was time to leave, I asked her if she wanted a ride home. She said no and shook her head with a smile. I asked her for her number and her response was she didn't want to give it to me there but will next week. I said I guess I could wait another week and she laughed and said she'd give it to me later that night. I left about 20 minutes later and didn't bring up the phone number.
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what happened to your balls at the bar.
Stand up straight like you're Ab Lincoln and say give me your number so we can go out and have fun soon. Ain't no asking out chere. Take what you want!
Stop being a puss!
Stand up straight like you're Ab Lincoln and say give me your number so we can go out and have fun soon. Ain't no asking out chere. Take what you want!
Stop being a puss!