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Bud_Fox
Guest
Well, can you?
Just wondering?
Thanks
Just wondering?
Thanks
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
i never heard of it bud, but i know you cant get anything from your own hand....
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Bud_Fox
Guest
What if the person was wearing a condom?
WTF??? I can hardly come from a handjob, but there's no way in hell I could do it if I had a condom on. There is a slim-to-none chance of getting STD's from getting a BJ, and I'm sure it's a fraction of THAT for a handjob. You have NOTHING to worry about.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
Yup, you can. If she has any kind of cuts or open wound no matter how small on her hand she can pass whatever she has over to you. Heck my fingers have some kind of skin problem where thin little pieces of skin stick out above my finger nails. If I pull them out they start bleeding 
If a girl had something similar and her blood came into contact with the penis opening you can become infected.
So in other words, every single thing you do with another person that involves skin to skin contact is potentially dangerous. It's up to you if you will let stuff like that stop you. The best way to protect yourself is to know the person you are messing with. If they're a known slut and or a drug user or maybe if you even know they have any diseases, beware.
If a girl had something similar and her blood came into contact with the penis opening you can become infected.So in other words, every single thing you do with another person that involves skin to skin contact is potentially dangerous. It's up to you if you will let stuff like that stop you. The best way to protect yourself is to know the person you are messing with. If they're a known slut and or a drug user or maybe if you even know they have any diseases, beware.
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DJ1234
Senior Don Juan
kind of like the chance of you using another persons tooth brush (who has an STD) who's gums bleed onto the tooth brush, you using it and having your gums bleed and contracting the STD....that would proably be the worst case scenario for getting an STD, but it COULD happen....
MacAvoy
Banned
Just bang the escort and don't worry about it
spider_007
Master Don Juan
now i've officially seen it all on this site.
i'm out.
i'm out.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
cootie cooties girls have cooties!!!!
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
MacAvoy
Banned
lmfao post of the yearBible_Belt said:
The Inside Man
Master Don Juan
Talked to a doctor because my best bud has oral herpes and I wanted to make sure I didn't get it, if I could still smoke pot with him etc(though I didnt ask like that).. Direct contact is the only way to get it, much more rarely by drinking after the person, but there needs to be mucuous membrane on membrane to transfer the virus. Highly doubtful that you can get an std from a handjob although I heard something about guys getting the virus/bacteria for different stds under their fingernails from fingering puss y. Don't know if thats true though.spax said:
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Honestly dude, if you can see a sore on his mouth, I would still not share the same joint/pipe/bong or whatever. This is coming from the 'girls have cooties' guy. I have shared plenty of smoking pieces w/o catching anything, but look for those cold sores and stay away when you see them.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
The Inside Man
Master Don Juan
Bible_Belt said:
I know...I stopped smoking with him when I found out he had it just to be safe whether he had an outbreak or not. He got it from making out with a girl that had a cold sore....ewww. Just saying that the doctor told me that it usually takes direct contact like kissing or oral for people to get it.
just so suave
Senior Don Juan
Watch How High, they dont share their spliff with some guy cus he has a cold sore haha
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