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Bud_Fox
Guest
Well, can you?
Just wondering?
Thanks
Just wondering?
Thanks
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
i never heard of it bud, but i know you cant get anything from your own hand....
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Bud_Fox
Guest
What if the person was wearing a condom?
WTF??? I can hardly come from a handjob, but there's no way in hell I could do it if I had a condom on. There is a slim-to-none chance of getting STD's from getting a BJ, and I'm sure it's a fraction of THAT for a handjob. You have NOTHING to worry about.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
Yup, you can. If she has any kind of cuts or open wound no matter how small on her hand she can pass whatever she has over to you. Heck my fingers have some kind of skin problem where thin little pieces of skin stick out above my finger nails. If I pull them out they start bleeding 
If a girl had something similar and her blood came into contact with the penis opening you can become infected.
So in other words, every single thing you do with another person that involves skin to skin contact is potentially dangerous. It's up to you if you will let stuff like that stop you. The best way to protect yourself is to know the person you are messing with. If they're a known slut and or a drug user or maybe if you even know they have any diseases, beware.
If a girl had something similar and her blood came into contact with the penis opening you can become infected.So in other words, every single thing you do with another person that involves skin to skin contact is potentially dangerous. It's up to you if you will let stuff like that stop you. The best way to protect yourself is to know the person you are messing with. If they're a known slut and or a drug user or maybe if you even know they have any diseases, beware.
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DJ1234
Senior Don Juan
kind of like the chance of you using another persons tooth brush (who has an STD) who's gums bleed onto the tooth brush, you using it and having your gums bleed and contracting the STD....that would proably be the worst case scenario for getting an STD, but it COULD happen....
MacAvoy
Banned
Just bang the escort and don't worry about it
spider_007
Master Don Juan
now i've officially seen it all on this site.
i'm out.
i'm out.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
cootie cooties girls have cooties!!!!
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
MacAvoy
Banned
lmfao post of the yearBible_Belt said:
The Inside Man
Master Don Juan
Talked to a doctor because my best bud has oral herpes and I wanted to make sure I didn't get it, if I could still smoke pot with him etc(though I didnt ask like that).. Direct contact is the only way to get it, much more rarely by drinking after the person, but there needs to be mucuous membrane on membrane to transfer the virus. Highly doubtful that you can get an std from a handjob although I heard something about guys getting the virus/bacteria for different stds under their fingernails from fingering puss y. Don't know if thats true though.spax said:
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Honestly dude, if you can see a sore on his mouth, I would still not share the same joint/pipe/bong or whatever. This is coming from the 'girls have cooties' guy. I have shared plenty of smoking pieces w/o catching anything, but look for those cold sores and stay away when you see them.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
The Inside Man
Master Don Juan
Bible_Belt said:
I know...I stopped smoking with him when I found out he had it just to be safe whether he had an outbreak or not. He got it from making out with a girl that had a cold sore....ewww. Just saying that the doctor told me that it usually takes direct contact like kissing or oral for people to get it.
just so suave
Senior Don Juan
Watch How High, they dont share their spliff with some guy cus he has a cold sore haha
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