"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Can you get a STD from a Hand Job?

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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i never heard of it bud, but i know you cant get anything from your own hand....
 

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Yes..

If she has a coldsore and touches her mouth and then your ****, u get herpes on your ****.

Also if she has warts on her hands, u can get get them on your ****.
 

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WTF??? I can hardly come from a handjob, but there's no way in hell I could do it if I had a condom on. There is a slim-to-none chance of getting STD's from getting a BJ, and I'm sure it's a fraction of THAT for a handjob. You have NOTHING to worry about.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Yup, you can. If she has any kind of cuts or open wound no matter how small on her hand she can pass whatever she has over to you. Heck my fingers have some kind of skin problem where thin little pieces of skin stick out above my finger nails. If I pull them out they start bleeding :( If a girl had something similar and her blood came into contact with the penis opening you can become infected.

So in other words, every single thing you do with another person that involves skin to skin contact is potentially dangerous. It's up to you if you will let stuff like that stop you. The best way to protect yourself is to know the person you are messing with. If they're a known slut and or a drug user or maybe if you even know they have any diseases, beware.
 
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kind of like the chance of you using another persons tooth brush (who has an STD) who's gums bleed onto the tooth brush, you using it and having your gums bleed and contracting the STD....that would proably be the worst case scenario for getting an STD, but it COULD happen....
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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spax said:
Yes..

If she has a coldsore and touches her mouth and then your ****, u get herpes on your ****.

Also if she has warts on her hands, u can get get them on your ****.
Talked to a doctor because my best bud has oral herpes and I wanted to make sure I didn't get it, if I could still smoke pot with him etc(though I didnt ask like that).. Direct contact is the only way to get it, much more rarely by drinking after the person, but there needs to be mucuous membrane on membrane to transfer the virus. Highly doubtful that you can get an std from a handjob although I heard something about guys getting the virus/bacteria for different stds under their fingernails from fingering puss y. Don't know if thats true though.
 

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Honestly dude, if you can see a sore on his mouth, I would still not share the same joint/pipe/bong or whatever. This is coming from the 'girls have cooties' guy. I have shared plenty of smoking pieces w/o catching anything, but look for those cold sores and stay away when you see them.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Bible_Belt said:
Honestly dude, if you can see a sore on his mouth, I would still not share the same joint/pipe/bong or whatever. This is coming from the 'girls have cooties' guy. I have shared plenty of smoking pieces w/o catching anything, but look for those cold sores and stay away when you see them.

I know...I stopped smoking with him when I found out he had it just to be safe whether he had an outbreak or not. He got it from making out with a girl that had a cold sore....ewww. Just saying that the doctor told me that it usually takes direct contact like kissing or oral for people to get it.
 

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Watch How High, they dont share their spliff with some guy cus he has a cold sore haha
 

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just so suave said:
Watch How High, they dont share their spliff with some guy cus he has a cold sore haha

ok thread closed.
 
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