"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Can you get a STD from a Hand Job?

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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i never heard of it bud, but i know you cant get anything from your own hand....
 

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Yes..

If she has a coldsore and touches her mouth and then your ****, u get herpes on your ****.

Also if she has warts on her hands, u can get get them on your ****.
 

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WTF??? I can hardly come from a handjob, but there's no way in hell I could do it if I had a condom on. There is a slim-to-none chance of getting STD's from getting a BJ, and I'm sure it's a fraction of THAT for a handjob. You have NOTHING to worry about.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Yup, you can. If she has any kind of cuts or open wound no matter how small on her hand she can pass whatever she has over to you. Heck my fingers have some kind of skin problem where thin little pieces of skin stick out above my finger nails. If I pull them out they start bleeding :( If a girl had something similar and her blood came into contact with the penis opening you can become infected.

So in other words, every single thing you do with another person that involves skin to skin contact is potentially dangerous. It's up to you if you will let stuff like that stop you. The best way to protect yourself is to know the person you are messing with. If they're a known slut and or a drug user or maybe if you even know they have any diseases, beware.
 
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kind of like the chance of you using another persons tooth brush (who has an STD) who's gums bleed onto the tooth brush, you using it and having your gums bleed and contracting the STD....that would proably be the worst case scenario for getting an STD, but it COULD happen....
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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spax said:
Yes..

If she has a coldsore and touches her mouth and then your ****, u get herpes on your ****.

Also if she has warts on her hands, u can get get them on your ****.
Talked to a doctor because my best bud has oral herpes and I wanted to make sure I didn't get it, if I could still smoke pot with him etc(though I didnt ask like that).. Direct contact is the only way to get it, much more rarely by drinking after the person, but there needs to be mucuous membrane on membrane to transfer the virus. Highly doubtful that you can get an std from a handjob although I heard something about guys getting the virus/bacteria for different stds under their fingernails from fingering puss y. Don't know if thats true though.
 

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Honestly dude, if you can see a sore on his mouth, I would still not share the same joint/pipe/bong or whatever. This is coming from the 'girls have cooties' guy. I have shared plenty of smoking pieces w/o catching anything, but look for those cold sores and stay away when you see them.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Bible_Belt said:
Honestly dude, if you can see a sore on his mouth, I would still not share the same joint/pipe/bong or whatever. This is coming from the 'girls have cooties' guy. I have shared plenty of smoking pieces w/o catching anything, but look for those cold sores and stay away when you see them.

I know...I stopped smoking with him when I found out he had it just to be safe whether he had an outbreak or not. He got it from making out with a girl that had a cold sore....ewww. Just saying that the doctor told me that it usually takes direct contact like kissing or oral for people to get it.
 

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Watch How High, they dont share their spliff with some guy cus he has a cold sore haha
 

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just so suave said:
Watch How High, they dont share their spliff with some guy cus he has a cold sore haha

ok thread closed.
 
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