spesmilitis
Master Don Juan
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Anyone know?
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
err, why shouldn't you be able to?spesmilitis said:Anyone know?
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I dont know why but this is hella funnyPRMoon said:Sure, you can. Why would you want to do it though? Put some water in there. Live on the edge.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
because it doesn't take up nearly as much space raw. try eating a cup of cooked oatmeal vs. chugging a shake with 1 cup crushed oats. BIG differencepvf94 said:What's the point of doing this if you can have it warm...and taste 10x better? lmao
you can say that againmd3sign said:because it doesn't take up nearly as much space raw. try eating a cup of cooked oatmeal vs. chugging a shake with 1 cup crushed oats. BIG difference
You can... why asked?spesmilitis said:Anyone know?
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Ice Cold said:1)
4) Just because you can't digest it, doesn't mean it's bad for you. It stimulates persitalsis - the contractile motion of your intestine, and makes you crap a whole lot of better.
pubmed links or lyingorganizedconfusion said:it's actually the fibers scraping the insides of your colon and scarring it,producing little tiny abrasions and causing mucus to form and allowing the stool to pass.Overtime this hardens the colon and damaging it's nerves becoming harder and harder to pass poop!
the fiber menace covers this process in great detail plus the danger of too much fiber in the diet. But i have tried the raw oats thing and i will NEVER do it again![]()
He probably means this bookreyalp said:pubmed links or lying
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.