mrgoodstuff
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"They will ruin your life if you keep them around"
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Can you develop an abundance mentality without spinning plates?
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
metalwater
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IKO69
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It's up to you to determine success - so yes, you can be abundant without spinning multiple plates. Maybe your interests are in other things and those things inspire/give you purpose and satisfaction
soulforge
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100% currently I have ZERO girls in my rotation.. Last time I had sex was just over a month ago. Do I care? Nope!
I'm busy with my job.. I'm busy killing it in the gym & reaching my goals of earning money so I can travel & buy good shiit.
I had a date lined up for last weekend & I simply canceled it. I have a date coming up for this coming Friday & honestly I probably won't show up.
Take it or leave it.. Puzzy should never be your number one priority in life. I enjoy my own company on those rare days I get free.
So I will watch a bunch of movies with a vodka or invite some friends over to chill with. It's all good.
I'm busy with my job.. I'm busy killing it in the gym & reaching my goals of earning money so I can travel & buy good shiit.
I had a date lined up for last weekend & I simply canceled it. I have a date coming up for this coming Friday & honestly I probably won't show up.
Take it or leave it.. Puzzy should never be your number one priority in life. I enjoy my own company on those rare days I get free.
So I will watch a bunch of movies with a vodka or invite some friends over to chill with. It's all good.
manfrombelow
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Bro may I ask why?
Mike32ct
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If a guy has no girls atm, maybe “abundance mindset” is the wrong target.
I think it’s more practical and realistic for such guy to have or develop an IDGAF mindset.
I think it’s more practical and realistic for such guy to have or develop an IDGAF mindset.
i have never had an LTR, i have never had a FWB and have never even ****ed the same girl twice. and my confidence with women (abundance) is always insane high. why?
because every time i walk out of my house women stare at me and give other body language signs they are attracted.
and i go clubbing 3-5 times per week for last 8 years.
abundance comes from knowing females find you attractive. has nothing to do with having a rotation/spinning plates or anything like that.
because every time i walk out of my house women stare at me and give other body language signs they are attracted.
and i go clubbing 3-5 times per week for last 8 years.
abundance comes from knowing females find you attractive. has nothing to do with having a rotation/spinning plates or anything like that.
CAPSLOCK BANDIT
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Sounds like your just bad at sex, they come back for the good stuff
Focal core
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Absolutely This! Learn to enjoy being alone with yourself firathand.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
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When sex takes a back seat you are approaching Abundance. Sacrificing sex and companionship for work and clarity of mind is good sometimes. it is called "monk mode" . But you can't be well rounded and stay in that condition forever.
To answer OP, I think you can be serial in your Sexual relationships, and if you have the confidence that you can and will meet another woman if (and when) this one ends, then you have abundance. Some women are in our life for a night and others for longer. You should have an active social circle where you identify women who are interested and learn to read their signals. Sometimes being IN a relationship and unattainable will give you a better picture of a woman before you make the moves on her. She realizes your briefly available and won't mess around when the opportunity presents itself.