"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Can you Alpha Widow a woman if you never slept with her?

2Rocky

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I noticed a close female friend who I thought was trying to get out of the friendzone with got into a couple relationships when I started mine. Neither one lasted real long while mine has gone on for awhile. She has gone into a long celibate spell since then and her relationship with my partner has deteriorated to the point they no longer speak.

My partner thinks she was jealous and wanted me...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Nope. If she doesn't think yr worthy of her eggs u ain't the alpha. Holes gonna get filled.
 
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I recently discovered someone can be demisexual, no idea that was even a thing. Anyone here have experience being with one that can chime in?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Can you Alpha Widow a woman if you never slept with her?

I believe you can.
 

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Yes ofcourse you can . Women getting Alpha widowed (imprinted) without sex from a early age. Think about teenage girls that fall in love with pop artists ect. And Imo s3x is not as important for women as it is for us men. The fantasy might be more powerful than reality .

I recently saw a show where a woman kept going on that she wants top men, because a Hollywood C actor once slid in her DM. That's the bar from now..

Let's say a NBA player is bored and starts sliding into DM's . He can be drunk bored and horny and approach 10 women. 5 respond. He starts talking with them and sets up meetings. Flakes on a few.

He basically imprinted all these women. Even if they never really meet. Regular Joe now has to deal wit a delusional woman who believes her maxx is a NBA baller even though in reality it was just a fluke approach at best.

But, a regular guy? Its difficult. You gotta be "out of her league " and act accordingly , yet stay close. Basically you gotta friendzone a woman HARD, and this friendzoning gotta have some traits of leading her on as well.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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But, a regular guy? Its difficult. You gotta be "out of her league " and act accordingly , yet stay close. Basically you gotta friendzone a woman HARD, and this friendzoning gotta have some traits of leading her on as well.

Oooh.....I may have done that....Damn..
 
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