"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Can you Alpha Widow a woman if you never slept with her?

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I noticed a close female friend who I thought was trying to get out of the friendzone with got into a couple relationships when I started mine. Neither one lasted real long while mine has gone on for awhile. She has gone into a long celibate spell since then and her relationship with my partner has deteriorated to the point they no longer speak.

My partner thinks she was jealous and wanted me...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Nope. If she doesn't think yr worthy of her eggs u ain't the alpha. Holes gonna get filled.
 
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I recently discovered someone can be demisexual, no idea that was even a thing. Anyone here have experience being with one that can chime in?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Can you Alpha Widow a woman if you never slept with her?

I believe you can.
 
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Yes ofcourse you can . Women getting Alpha widowed (imprinted) without sex from a early age. Think about teenage girls that fall in love with pop artists ect. And Imo s3x is not as important for women as it is for us men. The fantasy might be more powerful than reality .

I recently saw a show where a woman kept going on that she wants top men, because a Hollywood C actor once slid in her DM. That's the bar from now..

Let's say a NBA player is bored and starts sliding into DM's . He can be drunk bored and horny and approach 10 women. 5 respond. He starts talking with them and sets up meetings. Flakes on a few.

He basically imprinted all these women. Even if they never really meet. Regular Joe now has to deal wit a delusional woman who believes her maxx is a NBA baller even though in reality it was just a fluke approach at best.

But, a regular guy? Its difficult. You gotta be "out of her league " and act accordingly , yet stay close. Basically you gotta friendzone a woman HARD, and this friendzoning gotta have some traits of leading her on as well.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Gamisch said:
But, a regular guy? Its difficult. You gotta be "out of her league " and act accordingly , yet stay close. Basically you gotta friendzone a woman HARD, and this friendzoning gotta have some traits of leading her on as well.
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Oooh.....I may have done that....Damn..
 
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