"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Can you Alpha Widow a woman if you never slept with her?

2Rocky

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I noticed a close female friend who I thought was trying to get out of the friendzone with got into a couple relationships when I started mine. Neither one lasted real long while mine has gone on for awhile. She has gone into a long celibate spell since then and her relationship with my partner has deteriorated to the point they no longer speak.

My partner thinks she was jealous and wanted me...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Nope. If she doesn't think yr worthy of her eggs u ain't the alpha. Holes gonna get filled.
 
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I recently discovered someone can be demisexual, no idea that was even a thing. Anyone here have experience being with one that can chime in?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Can you Alpha Widow a woman if you never slept with her?

I believe you can.
 
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Yes ofcourse you can . Women getting Alpha widowed (imprinted) without sex from a early age. Think about teenage girls that fall in love with pop artists ect. And Imo s3x is not as important for women as it is for us men. The fantasy might be more powerful than reality .

I recently saw a show where a woman kept going on that she wants top men, because a Hollywood C actor once slid in her DM. That's the bar from now..

Let's say a NBA player is bored and starts sliding into DM's . He can be drunk bored and horny and approach 10 women. 5 respond. He starts talking with them and sets up meetings. Flakes on a few.

He basically imprinted all these women. Even if they never really meet. Regular Joe now has to deal wit a delusional woman who believes her maxx is a NBA baller even though in reality it was just a fluke approach at best.

But, a regular guy? Its difficult. You gotta be "out of her league " and act accordingly , yet stay close. Basically you gotta friendzone a woman HARD, and this friendzoning gotta have some traits of leading her on as well.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Gamisch said:
But, a regular guy? Its difficult. You gotta be "out of her league " and act accordingly , yet stay close. Basically you gotta friendzone a woman HARD, and this friendzoning gotta have some traits of leading her on as well.
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Oooh.....I may have done that....Damn..
 
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