Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Can u hit on customers in a Bar?

rushing dude 123

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I work in a bar that is in a bowling alley and i help on lanes 2. Now i know hitting on the people i work with wud b a bad idea, because it cud cause trouble. The customers i am not to sure about, because i am worried if a bad reaction cud get me in trouble, but i think i am just being stupid their kinda. U can figure that i wud b talking to a lot of cute/drunk girls in this job and yep i do and flirt a bit too, but nothing wud ever happen unless i actually make a close. I just need u guys to set my head straight on this matter thanks.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Effington

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It's not really good form to spend too much time with one person, generally I'd think you have job responsibilities to perform. Two minutes, get a phone number and arrange for plans to meet when you're not working. Oh, also, making out with guests could be a bad idea, depending on your boss.
 

rushing dude 123

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yeh i suppose ur right, i was just making excuses not to approach. There r limits to this, my managers would b fine with me asking out customers has long has i am not wasting time like making out with them or spending to long on one customer. If i close for numbers i guess i would have to make sure manager is not near. I was just thinking that the customers would complain to manager, but i guess that is the same has thinking a girl on the street would just flip out swearing at u, more than likely it won't happen.

Any more opinions on the subject would b appreciated, but i think i got it down.
 

Bonez

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I get numbers all the time working in a bar. Been there for 7 months and I have never once gotten in trouble for hitting on customers.

rapport, flirt, push pull, neg, cut them off and ask for their number... whatever you feel like doing. As long as you do it right and don't offend them it should be ALLLLL good.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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thatguyjamalx

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Yeah, bonez is on it, when I was working in a bar for 2yrs thats how I got my majority of pu$$ie.
I miss those days...
 
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