"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Can u hit on customers in a Bar?

rushing dude 123

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I work in a bar that is in a bowling alley and i help on lanes 2. Now i know hitting on the people i work with wud b a bad idea, because it cud cause trouble. The customers i am not to sure about, because i am worried if a bad reaction cud get me in trouble, but i think i am just being stupid their kinda. U can figure that i wud b talking to a lot of cute/drunk girls in this job and yep i do and flirt a bit too, but nothing wud ever happen unless i actually make a close. I just need u guys to set my head straight on this matter thanks.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Effington

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It's not really good form to spend too much time with one person, generally I'd think you have job responsibilities to perform. Two minutes, get a phone number and arrange for plans to meet when you're not working. Oh, also, making out with guests could be a bad idea, depending on your boss.
 

rushing dude 123

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yeh i suppose ur right, i was just making excuses not to approach. There r limits to this, my managers would b fine with me asking out customers has long has i am not wasting time like making out with them or spending to long on one customer. If i close for numbers i guess i would have to make sure manager is not near. I was just thinking that the customers would complain to manager, but i guess that is the same has thinking a girl on the street would just flip out swearing at u, more than likely it won't happen.

Any more opinions on the subject would b appreciated, but i think i got it down.
 

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I get numbers all the time working in a bar. Been there for 7 months and I have never once gotten in trouble for hitting on customers.

rapport, flirt, push pull, neg, cut them off and ask for their number... whatever you feel like doing. As long as you do it right and don't offend them it should be ALLLLL good.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Yeah, bonez is on it, when I was working in a bar for 2yrs thats how I got my majority of pu$$ie.
I miss those days...
 
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