"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Can u hit on customers in a Bar?

rushing dude 123

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I work in a bar that is in a bowling alley and i help on lanes 2. Now i know hitting on the people i work with wud b a bad idea, because it cud cause trouble. The customers i am not to sure about, because i am worried if a bad reaction cud get me in trouble, but i think i am just being stupid their kinda. U can figure that i wud b talking to a lot of cute/drunk girls in this job and yep i do and flirt a bit too, but nothing wud ever happen unless i actually make a close. I just need u guys to set my head straight on this matter thanks.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Effington

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It's not really good form to spend too much time with one person, generally I'd think you have job responsibilities to perform. Two minutes, get a phone number and arrange for plans to meet when you're not working. Oh, also, making out with guests could be a bad idea, depending on your boss.
 

rushing dude 123

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yeh i suppose ur right, i was just making excuses not to approach. There r limits to this, my managers would b fine with me asking out customers has long has i am not wasting time like making out with them or spending to long on one customer. If i close for numbers i guess i would have to make sure manager is not near. I was just thinking that the customers would complain to manager, but i guess that is the same has thinking a girl on the street would just flip out swearing at u, more than likely it won't happen.

Any more opinions on the subject would b appreciated, but i think i got it down.
 

Bonez

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I get numbers all the time working in a bar. Been there for 7 months and I have never once gotten in trouble for hitting on customers.

rapport, flirt, push pull, neg, cut them off and ask for their number... whatever you feel like doing. As long as you do it right and don't offend them it should be ALLLLL good.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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thatguyjamalx

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Yeah, bonez is on it, when I was working in a bar for 2yrs thats how I got my majority of pu$$ie.
I miss those days...
 
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