"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Can u hit on customers in a Bar?

rushing dude 123

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I work in a bar that is in a bowling alley and i help on lanes 2. Now i know hitting on the people i work with wud b a bad idea, because it cud cause trouble. The customers i am not to sure about, because i am worried if a bad reaction cud get me in trouble, but i think i am just being stupid their kinda. U can figure that i wud b talking to a lot of cute/drunk girls in this job and yep i do and flirt a bit too, but nothing wud ever happen unless i actually make a close. I just need u guys to set my head straight on this matter thanks.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Effington

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It's not really good form to spend too much time with one person, generally I'd think you have job responsibilities to perform. Two minutes, get a phone number and arrange for plans to meet when you're not working. Oh, also, making out with guests could be a bad idea, depending on your boss.
 

rushing dude 123

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yeh i suppose ur right, i was just making excuses not to approach. There r limits to this, my managers would b fine with me asking out customers has long has i am not wasting time like making out with them or spending to long on one customer. If i close for numbers i guess i would have to make sure manager is not near. I was just thinking that the customers would complain to manager, but i guess that is the same has thinking a girl on the street would just flip out swearing at u, more than likely it won't happen.

Any more opinions on the subject would b appreciated, but i think i got it down.
 

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I get numbers all the time working in a bar. Been there for 7 months and I have never once gotten in trouble for hitting on customers.

rapport, flirt, push pull, neg, cut them off and ask for their number... whatever you feel like doing. As long as you do it right and don't offend them it should be ALLLLL good.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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thatguyjamalx

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Yeah, bonez is on it, when I was working in a bar for 2yrs thats how I got my majority of pu$$ie.
I miss those days...
 
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