"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Can someone explain this?

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There's this HB7 at my work who flirts like hell and shows very high interest level. I was outside conversing with friends and she showed up to get something from work she forgot and interupted the conversation so I would talk to her.
She starts to ask what im doing tonight, this weekend etc. So I go ahead and get her number. Well she goes inside to do her thing then when she comes back out she interupts me again to say "oops I should'nt have given you my number because I have a boyfriend and he will get mad".
I just kinda went about it like oh well, your missing out etc. After that she goes back to the "what are you doing tonight, this weekend" thing. WTF does she want, to call or not to call. OR was this a test to see how I would react to her having a boyfriend.
Some insight please?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Pimp-sicle

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There's only one way to play this. DO NOTHING!! Yup that's right. If she does have a bf then to get her, you have to make her pursue YOU! If she doesn't have a bf and this is a shyt test, then it was a crappy way to get your attention, but she's 18-19 so that's pretty typical of girls that age.

Best way to respond next time she keeps on walking up to you and all is to be super C/F with her. Tease her a little and see how she reacts. Its obvious that this girl is either

a) a huge attention *****- highly possible
b) wants you, but doesn't want you to know you completely have her yet.


Just chill and she'll do all the work if she likes you.




PIMP
 
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Give it right back to her. Say you have a girl and you dont have time to play around with hoes.
 
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Ice Cold

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ASK HER OUT

This cuts through all the bs games. If she goes for you, then good. If cancels, her loss.

That's it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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HuuBinh

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im agreein' with pimp on this one, definately an attention ho.
 
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She is toying with you - give her the number back and say, "I should have not taken it, I already have a few girlfriends and I don't have time for another one!!
 
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Tell her that oral sex isn't actually cheating.
 
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