"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Can someone explain this?

Monoxide_Child

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There's this HB7 at my work who flirts like hell and shows very high interest level. I was outside conversing with friends and she showed up to get something from work she forgot and interupted the conversation so I would talk to her.
She starts to ask what im doing tonight, this weekend etc. So I go ahead and get her number. Well she goes inside to do her thing then when she comes back out she interupts me again to say "oops I should'nt have given you my number because I have a boyfriend and he will get mad".
I just kinda went about it like oh well, your missing out etc. After that she goes back to the "what are you doing tonight, this weekend" thing. WTF does she want, to call or not to call. OR was this a test to see how I would react to her having a boyfriend.
Some insight please?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Pimp-sicle

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There's only one way to play this. DO NOTHING!! Yup that's right. If she does have a bf then to get her, you have to make her pursue YOU! If she doesn't have a bf and this is a shyt test, then it was a crappy way to get your attention, but she's 18-19 so that's pretty typical of girls that age.

Best way to respond next time she keeps on walking up to you and all is to be super C/F with her. Tease her a little and see how she reacts. Its obvious that this girl is either

a) a huge attention *****- highly possible
b) wants you, but doesn't want you to know you completely have her yet.


Just chill and she'll do all the work if she likes you.




PIMP
 

DX_Flyer

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Give it right back to her. Say you have a girl and you dont have time to play around with hoes.
 

Ice Cold

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ASK HER OUT

This cuts through all the bs games. If she goes for you, then good. If cancels, her loss.

That's it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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HuuBinh

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im agreein' with pimp on this one, definately an attention ho.
 
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She is toying with you - give her the number back and say, "I should have not taken it, I already have a few girlfriends and I don't have time for another one!!
 

playasupreme

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Tell her that oral sex isn't actually cheating.
 
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