SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
Also has hanging out with the right people improved your success.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Can hanging out with the wrong people hinder your chances women?
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Of course it does, people tend to hang with those who are similar to them hence the term "birds of a feather". If a woman sees you hanging out at the bar with a bunch of obnoxious losers then what do you think she'll assume you to be?
JohnChops
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you;re going to choose friends... to get women ..... Wow. I wouldn't care if my friends were obnoxious losers, if they are cool and know how t have fun then fvck women. Too me this is plain stupid.
Who Dares Win
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We're the average of the 5 people we attend more often, plus you hardly will fly as an eagle if you're surrounded from chickens.
coochieman
Don Juan
Yes.
Upsetting nevertheless True.
Associate with wolves and you soon begin to howl.
I learnt the hard way.
If you hanged out with Bill Gates, Warren Buffet and Me
as mutual friends all year, strategizing... Ask...
Do you think you'd still be this broke?
You would most likely not need this forum any longer.
Upsetting nevertheless True.
Associate with wolves and you soon begin to howl.
I learnt the hard way.
If you hanged out with Bill Gates, Warren Buffet and Me
as mutual friends all year, strategizing... Ask...Do you think you'd still be this broke?
You would most likely not need this forum any longer.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Bokanovsky
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How can an "obnoxious loser" be cool?JohnChops said:
Ronaldo7
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Your circle says a lot about who you are. A good circle raises your aura, while a bad circle segregates you to the loser section automatically. Friends are like pawns in a game of chess. Surround yourself strategically to accomplish your objective.