SamTheHobit
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Also has hanging out with the right people improved your success.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Can hanging out with the wrong people hinder your chances women?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Of course it does, people tend to hang with those who are similar to them hence the term "birds of a feather". If a woman sees you hanging out at the bar with a bunch of obnoxious losers then what do you think she'll assume you to be?
JohnChops
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you;re going to choose friends... to get women ..... Wow. I wouldn't care if my friends were obnoxious losers, if they are cool and know how t have fun then fvck women. Too me this is plain stupid.
Who Dares Win
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We're the average of the 5 people we attend more often, plus you hardly will fly as an eagle if you're surrounded from chickens.
coochieman
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Yes.
Upsetting nevertheless True.
Associate with wolves and you soon begin to howl.
I learnt the hard way.
If you hanged out with Bill Gates, Warren Buffet and Me
as mutual friends all year, strategizing... Ask...
Do you think you'd still be this broke?
You would most likely not need this forum any longer.
Upsetting nevertheless True.
Associate with wolves and you soon begin to howl.
I learnt the hard way.
If you hanged out with Bill Gates, Warren Buffet and Me
as mutual friends all year, strategizing... Ask...Do you think you'd still be this broke?
You would most likely not need this forum any longer.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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How can an "obnoxious loser" be cool?JohnChops said:
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Your circle says a lot about who you are. A good circle raises your aura, while a bad circle segregates you to the loser section automatically. Friends are like pawns in a game of chess. Surround yourself strategically to accomplish your objective.