SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
Also has hanging out with the right people improved your success.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Can hanging out with the wrong people hinder your chances women?
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Of course it does, people tend to hang with those who are similar to them hence the term "birds of a feather". If a woman sees you hanging out at the bar with a bunch of obnoxious losers then what do you think she'll assume you to be?
JohnChops
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you;re going to choose friends... to get women ..... Wow. I wouldn't care if my friends were obnoxious losers, if they are cool and know how t have fun then fvck women. Too me this is plain stupid.
Who Dares Win
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We're the average of the 5 people we attend more often, plus you hardly will fly as an eagle if you're surrounded from chickens.
coochieman
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Yes.
Upsetting nevertheless True.
Associate with wolves and you soon begin to howl.
I learnt the hard way.
If you hanged out with Bill Gates, Warren Buffet and Me
as mutual friends all year, strategizing... Ask...
Do you think you'd still be this broke?
You would most likely not need this forum any longer.
Upsetting nevertheless True.
Associate with wolves and you soon begin to howl.
I learnt the hard way.
If you hanged out with Bill Gates, Warren Buffet and Me
as mutual friends all year, strategizing... Ask...Do you think you'd still be this broke?
You would most likely not need this forum any longer.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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How can an "obnoxious loser" be cool?JohnChops said:
Ronaldo7
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Your circle says a lot about who you are. A good circle raises your aura, while a bad circle segregates you to the loser section automatically. Friends are like pawns in a game of chess. Surround yourself strategically to accomplish your objective.