SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
Also has hanging out with the right people improved your success.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Can hanging out with the wrong people hinder your chances women?
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Of course it does, people tend to hang with those who are similar to them hence the term "birds of a feather". If a woman sees you hanging out at the bar with a bunch of obnoxious losers then what do you think she'll assume you to be?
JohnChops
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you;re going to choose friends... to get women ..... Wow. I wouldn't care if my friends were obnoxious losers, if they are cool and know how t have fun then fvck women. Too me this is plain stupid.
Who Dares Win
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We're the average of the 5 people we attend more often, plus you hardly will fly as an eagle if you're surrounded from chickens.
coochieman
Don Juan
Yes.
Upsetting nevertheless True.
Associate with wolves and you soon begin to howl.
I learnt the hard way.
If you hanged out with Bill Gates, Warren Buffet and Me
as mutual friends all year, strategizing... Ask...
Do you think you'd still be this broke?
You would most likely not need this forum any longer.
Upsetting nevertheless True.
Associate with wolves and you soon begin to howl.
I learnt the hard way.
If you hanged out with Bill Gates, Warren Buffet and Me
as mutual friends all year, strategizing... Ask...Do you think you'd still be this broke?
You would most likely not need this forum any longer.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Bokanovsky
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How can an "obnoxious loser" be cool?JohnChops said:
Ronaldo7
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Your circle says a lot about who you are. A good circle raises your aura, while a bad circle segregates you to the loser section automatically. Friends are like pawns in a game of chess. Surround yourself strategically to accomplish your objective.