"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Can hanging out with the wrong people hinder your chances women?

SamTheHobit

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Also has hanging out with the right people improved your success.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Of course it does, people tend to hang with those who are similar to them hence the term "birds of a feather". If a woman sees you hanging out at the bar with a bunch of obnoxious losers then what do you think she'll assume you to be?
 

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you;re going to choose friends... to get women ..... Wow. I wouldn't care if my friends were obnoxious losers, if they are cool and know how t have fun then fvck women. Too me this is plain stupid.
 

Who Dares Win

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We're the average of the 5 people we attend more often, plus you hardly will fly as an eagle if you're surrounded from chickens.
 

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Drowning In Vaginal Fluids. Help.
Yes.
Upsetting nevertheless True.

Associate with wolves and you soon begin to howl.
I learnt the hard way.

If you hanged out with Bill Gates, Warren Buffet and Me:cool: as mutual friends all year, strategizing... Ask...

Do you think you'd still be this broke?
You would most likely not need this forum any longer.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Bokanovsky

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JohnChops said:
you;re going to choose friends... to get women ..... Wow. I wouldn't care if my friends were obnoxious losers, if they are cool and know how t have fun then fvck women. Too me this is plain stupid.
How can an "obnoxious loser" be cool? :confused:
 

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Your circle says a lot about who you are. A good circle raises your aura, while a bad circle segregates you to the loser section automatically. Friends are like pawns in a game of chess. Surround yourself strategically to accomplish your objective.
 

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Different friends for different purposes. Keep a large social circle and you won't encounter this problem often.
 
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