Can Goodlooking Guys Get Away With Being AFC?

[Juan_Man]

Opinions please?

 

[Tazman]

To an extent. Depends on who's on the recieving end of the AFCness and what you're referring to when you say "AFC". I see many guys with decent chicks who do things I consider AFCish, but they have to be doing something right. Atleast enough to keep these women around.

 

[crossboss]

My opinion

Some can
1. First depends on how AFCish you are.
2. Second depends on how good looking you are.
3. Third depends on social status.

 

[Brian20o2]

Re: My opinion

Originally posted by crossboss
Some can
1. First depends on how AFCish you are.
2. Second depends on how good looking you are.
3. Third depends on social status.

Fully agree

 

[Le Parisien]

Define what you mean by "get away with"...

If it means get one night stands with hot girls, hell yeah!
If it means sustaining a healthy long term relationship, hell no!

Some can
1. First depends on how AFCish you are.
2. Second depends on how good looking you are.
3. Third depends on social status.

I agree with this.
But again it also depends on what AFCish behavior we are talking about. Just bear in mind that behaviors that are perceived as AFCish by some people are NOT necessarily "truely AFCish" and might be smooth moves. Hope people understand what I mean on this one...

 

[Jariel]

No!

There are plenty of good looking guys on this site, but why do you think they came here?

I'm fortunate to have good looks, height, physique and general appearance on my side, and even though I've always got more initial female attention than my friends, I've been through more failed relationships, failed dates and been with less women than many guys a lot worse looking, scruffier, shorter and fatter than myself. Why? Because I used to be an AFC and a supplicating wuss and it's a literal turn off to women!

It's only since I've changed my personality/mental state and become more confident and adept at handling women, that I'm where I want to be.

 

[Jariel]

Originally posted by Le Parisien
Define what you mean by "get away with"...

If it means get one night stands with hot girls, hell yeah!
If it means sustaining a healthy long term relationship, hell no!

True!

 

[coaster]

The looks thing wears off..if he acts like a Metrosexual then it will be done sooner....AFC maybe a little longer but in the longrun she will be gone....I am not a hot guy...im kinda chubby and a lot of body hair...scares me sometimes...but it dont matter to them its like I am 6'6 and buff.... because if you can stimulate their mind....the rest will follow

 

[Warlord]

Originally posted by coaster
The looks thing wears off..if he acts like a Metrosexual then it will be done sooner....AFC maybe a little longer but in the longrun she will be gone....I am not a hot guy...im kinda chubby and a lot of body hair...scares me sometimes...but it dont matter to them its like I am 6'6 and buff.... because if you can stimulate their mind....the rest will follow

An AFC can stimulate her mind if he's willing to pay for everything. Even though the girl and the guy's intellect is somwhere around high school (no offense, ****ers who are under 21, you ****ers clog this forum, ****ers) if he's all about money he doesn;t have to work as hard as the guy who doesn't have money. It's a tradeoff sometimes.

 

[WORKEROUTER]

I have a buddy who looks like a model. He's ukranian, blonde, and is the male "ideal" of nearly every chick who sees him (imagine how hard it was macking on chicks with this guy with me). Anyway. he's a nice guy AFC. Has a hot gf but it seems like she's in control. If he was a little more aggressive and manly and less chumpish, he could probably score multitudes of gorgeous babes at a time.

Damn, how it would be awesome to look like him.