“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Can Goodlooking Guys Get Away With Being AFC?

Can Goodlooking Guys Get Away With Being AFC?

  • Yes

    Votes: 17 58.6%
  • No

    Votes: 9 31.0%
  • Don't Know

    Votes: 3 10.3%

  • Total voters
    29
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Juan_Man

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Opinions please?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Tazman

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To an extent. Depends on who's on the recieving end of the AFCness and what you're referring to when you say "AFC". I see many guys with decent chicks who do things I consider AFCish, but they have to be doing something right. Atleast enough to keep these women around.
 

crossboss

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My opinion

Some can
1. First depends on how AFCish you are.
2. Second depends on how good looking you are.
3. Third depends on social status.
 

Brian20o2

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Re: My opinion

Originally posted by crossboss
Some can
1. First depends on how AFCish you are.
2. Second depends on how good looking you are.
3. Third depends on social status.
Fully agree
 

Le Parisien

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Define what you mean by "get away with"...

If it means get one night stands with hot girls, hell yeah!
If it means sustaining a healthy long term relationship, hell no!


Some can
1. First depends on how AFCish you are.
2. Second depends on how good looking you are.
3. Third depends on social status.
I agree with this.
But again it also depends on what AFCish behavior we are talking about. Just bear in mind that behaviors that are perceived as AFCish by some people are NOT necessarily "truely AFCish" and might be smooth moves. Hope people understand what I mean on this one...
:eek:
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Jariel

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No!

There are plenty of good looking guys on this site, but why do you think they came here?

I'm fortunate to have good looks, height, physique and general appearance on my side, and even though I've always got more initial female attention than my friends, I've been through more failed relationships, failed dates and been with less women than many guys a lot worse looking, scruffier, shorter and fatter than myself. Why? Because I used to be an AFC and a supplicating wuss and it's a literal turn off to women!

It's only since I've changed my personality/mental state and become more confident and adept at handling women, that I'm where I want to be.
 

Jariel

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Originally posted by Le Parisien
Define what you mean by "get away with"...

If it means get one night stands with hot girls, hell yeah!
If it means sustaining a healthy long term relationship, hell no!
True!
 

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The looks thing wears off..if he acts like a Metrosexual then it will be done sooner....AFC maybe a little longer but in the longrun she will be gone....I am not a hot guy...im kinda chubby and a lot of body hair...scares me sometimes...but it dont matter to them its like I am 6'6 and buff.... because if you can stimulate their mind....the rest will follow
 

Warlord

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Originally posted by coaster
The looks thing wears off..if he acts like a Metrosexual then it will be done sooner....AFC maybe a little longer but in the longrun she will be gone....I am not a hot guy...im kinda chubby and a lot of body hair...scares me sometimes...but it dont matter to them its like I am 6'6 and buff.... because if you can stimulate their mind....the rest will follow
An AFC can stimulate her mind if he's willing to pay for everything. Even though the girl and the guy's intellect is somwhere around high school (no offense, ****ers who are under 21, you ****ers clog this forum, ****ers) if he's all about money he doesn;t have to work as hard as the guy who doesn't have money. It's a tradeoff sometimes.
 

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I have a buddy who looks like a model. He's ukranian, blonde, and is the male "ideal" of nearly every chick who sees him (imagine how hard it was macking on chicks with this guy with me). Anyway. he's a nice guy AFC. Has a hot gf but it seems like she's in control. If he was a little more aggressive and manly and less chumpish, he could probably score multitudes of gorgeous babes at a time.

Damn, how it would be awesome to look like him.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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