"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Can Approach Well, What Next?

AbsolutBeirut

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My game has reached the point where I can pretty much approach any set and throw in my default opener if I don't got anything better to say. Most of the time I get resistance but I am able to stick around by changing threads. Then I reach the point where I become lame, so I split. Doing it so often has gotten me prepared for the multitude of responses that I'd get out of it like "are you using a pickup line on me?". Anyways, I just want to know whether I'm doing a good job by not getting phased out by it and whether it takes even more perseverance to actually get somewhere. Or is it that I am doing it wrong in the first place because I really don't have to jump through that many hoops?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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BadJadder said:
My game has reached the point where I can pretty much approach any set and throw in my default opener if I don't got anything better to say. Most of the time I get resistance but I am able to stick around by changing threads. Then I reach the point where I become lame, so I split. Doing it so often has gotten me prepared for the multitude of responses that I'd get out of it like "are you using a pickup line on me?". Anyways, I just want to know whether I'm doing a good job by not getting phased out by it and whether it takes even more perseverance to actually get somewhere. Or is it that I am doing it wrong in the first place because I really don't have to jump through that many hoops?
Are you following a specific model? Or are you making your own?

I suggest the M3 Model by Mystery. A lot of the time, guys who make their own model aren't doing it right.

Attract

A1- Open
A2- Female to Male Interest (Where you display higher value)
A3- Male to Female Interest (Where you reward her with IOIs)

Comfort

C1- Conversation
C2- Comfort Building (Rapport, use story telling here)
C3- Intimacy (Kissing)

Seduction

S1- Foreplay
S2- LMR
S3- Sex

Make sure you bind C3 and S1,2 and 3.

You must have enough comfort before you can go past the point of no return. C3 is kissing, that's ok. If it turns into Makeout, you must stop and hold yourself back. Makeout is part of S1.
 

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Usually what follow next after an approach is anal sex.
 

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Uhm, what's the point of an approach if you aren't gonna attempt to escalate to the next level?

1.Approach
2.Hook
3.Switch conversation topic
4.Explore
5.Isolate
6.Escalate
7.Kiss close, number close, fvck close...

Hardest part is hooking the set, once you're engaged in conversation with the whole set, the rest seems relatively simple.

-E.Nigma
 

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MisterNigma said:
Hardest part is hooking the set, once you're engaged in conversation with the whole set, the rest seems relatively simple.
That's exactly my problem!!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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