"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Can Approach Well, What Next?

AbsolutBeirut

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My game has reached the point where I can pretty much approach any set and throw in my default opener if I don't got anything better to say. Most of the time I get resistance but I am able to stick around by changing threads. Then I reach the point where I become lame, so I split. Doing it so often has gotten me prepared for the multitude of responses that I'd get out of it like "are you using a pickup line on me?". Anyways, I just want to know whether I'm doing a good job by not getting phased out by it and whether it takes even more perseverance to actually get somewhere. Or is it that I am doing it wrong in the first place because I really don't have to jump through that many hoops?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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BadJadder said:
My game has reached the point where I can pretty much approach any set and throw in my default opener if I don't got anything better to say. Most of the time I get resistance but I am able to stick around by changing threads. Then I reach the point where I become lame, so I split. Doing it so often has gotten me prepared for the multitude of responses that I'd get out of it like "are you using a pickup line on me?". Anyways, I just want to know whether I'm doing a good job by not getting phased out by it and whether it takes even more perseverance to actually get somewhere. Or is it that I am doing it wrong in the first place because I really don't have to jump through that many hoops?
Are you following a specific model? Or are you making your own?

I suggest the M3 Model by Mystery. A lot of the time, guys who make their own model aren't doing it right.

Attract

A1- Open
A2- Female to Male Interest (Where you display higher value)
A3- Male to Female Interest (Where you reward her with IOIs)

Comfort

C1- Conversation
C2- Comfort Building (Rapport, use story telling here)
C3- Intimacy (Kissing)

Seduction

S1- Foreplay
S2- LMR
S3- Sex

Make sure you bind C3 and S1,2 and 3.

You must have enough comfort before you can go past the point of no return. C3 is kissing, that's ok. If it turns into Makeout, you must stop and hold yourself back. Makeout is part of S1.
 

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Usually what follow next after an approach is anal sex.
 

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Uhm, what's the point of an approach if you aren't gonna attempt to escalate to the next level?

1.Approach
2.Hook
3.Switch conversation topic
4.Explore
5.Isolate
6.Escalate
7.Kiss close, number close, fvck close...

Hardest part is hooking the set, once you're engaged in conversation with the whole set, the rest seems relatively simple.

-E.Nigma
 

AbsolutBeirut

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MisterNigma said:
Hardest part is hooking the set, once you're engaged in conversation with the whole set, the rest seems relatively simple.
That's exactly my problem!!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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