"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Can Approach Well, What Next?

AbsolutBeirut

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My game has reached the point where I can pretty much approach any set and throw in my default opener if I don't got anything better to say. Most of the time I get resistance but I am able to stick around by changing threads. Then I reach the point where I become lame, so I split. Doing it so often has gotten me prepared for the multitude of responses that I'd get out of it like "are you using a pickup line on me?". Anyways, I just want to know whether I'm doing a good job by not getting phased out by it and whether it takes even more perseverance to actually get somewhere. Or is it that I am doing it wrong in the first place because I really don't have to jump through that many hoops?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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BadJadder said:
My game has reached the point where I can pretty much approach any set and throw in my default opener if I don't got anything better to say. Most of the time I get resistance but I am able to stick around by changing threads. Then I reach the point where I become lame, so I split. Doing it so often has gotten me prepared for the multitude of responses that I'd get out of it like "are you using a pickup line on me?". Anyways, I just want to know whether I'm doing a good job by not getting phased out by it and whether it takes even more perseverance to actually get somewhere. Or is it that I am doing it wrong in the first place because I really don't have to jump through that many hoops?
Are you following a specific model? Or are you making your own?

I suggest the M3 Model by Mystery. A lot of the time, guys who make their own model aren't doing it right.

Attract

A1- Open
A2- Female to Male Interest (Where you display higher value)
A3- Male to Female Interest (Where you reward her with IOIs)

Comfort

C1- Conversation
C2- Comfort Building (Rapport, use story telling here)
C3- Intimacy (Kissing)

Seduction

S1- Foreplay
S2- LMR
S3- Sex

Make sure you bind C3 and S1,2 and 3.

You must have enough comfort before you can go past the point of no return. C3 is kissing, that's ok. If it turns into Makeout, you must stop and hold yourself back. Makeout is part of S1.
 

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Usually what follow next after an approach is anal sex.
 

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Uhm, what's the point of an approach if you aren't gonna attempt to escalate to the next level?

1.Approach
2.Hook
3.Switch conversation topic
4.Explore
5.Isolate
6.Escalate
7.Kiss close, number close, fvck close...

Hardest part is hooking the set, once you're engaged in conversation with the whole set, the rest seems relatively simple.

-E.Nigma
 

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MisterNigma said:
Hardest part is hooking the set, once you're engaged in conversation with the whole set, the rest seems relatively simple.
That's exactly my problem!!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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